boyfriend of 9 months says he is bored not with me but with his life in general, when i ask him about he says he does not feel like talking about it. I as him if he is bored with me and he said no. what should i do he also said that this weekend he wanted to just stay home and not go out as he said that we did lots of stuff the past few weekends....what should i do? what does this mean? Should i leave him alone or try to help
2007-01-13 13:15:51 · 6 answers · asked by Queen459789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that he might be lying to you about the not being bored with you and he might be dating someone else and cheating on you...
i think it might be time for you to break up with him
ps: why did you write this question 2 times
2007-01-14 06:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by spice18536 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be a phase, for example right now most colleges are still on break so everyone is bored out of their mind. Just keep offering different options of stuff yall can do, but don't get upset if he doesn't want to go out.
2007-01-13 21:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by texas hearts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like depression. If you can't get him to talk, go to an adult or other professional, or school counselor.
Problems are temporary... the alternate of his 'boring life' is permanent.
2007-01-13 21:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by bakfanlin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should give him some free time byhimself but not 2 much then he might start thinking things lol..but then take him out somewhere u no he would have lots of fun or buy him somethingg he wanted for a long time or something he likes ;]
2007-01-13 21:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by Hello (; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe just have a weekend to chill at home and not do anything or try to do something new and "exciting" then maybe he won't be as bored
2007-01-13 21:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by JennLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's sinking into depression. Find out what his problems and issues are. Try your best to help him and try to talk to him about it. If not, go to an adult.
2007-01-13 21:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋