This guy has swept me off my feet and i can't help myself. No one else made me feel like this before. BUT i heard some awful things about this guy. i have a CRUSH.=X OHYEAH he said he likes me too and loves talking to me. I dont know if this guy is honest or not? How do i find out?
2007-01-13 13:10:38 · 21 answers · asked by Lala 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The song C.R.U.S.H by Ciara is exactly how i feel.
2007-01-13 13:11:34 · update #1
You're not in love with him...you're in love with who you hope he is...
only time will help you find out the truth...guard your heart and don't do anything you feel you will regret in the near future, if he does turn out to be a player...don't allow yourself to feel 'used'...
2007-01-13 13:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't always go by what other people say.They could be jealous.Hearing something is a rumor.All you can really do is trust him.If you see any signs of him doing anything that would be consider him as a player then it's time to forget him.Until then just try to trust him.
2007-01-13 21:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been there, done that. just break it off immediately b/c you will get caught up despite what you've heard. and then you'll get heartbroken when you find out he's cheating on you (which you knew would happen). what looks good isn't always good for you. what he's doing is what players do. their sweet talk blinds you from the truth. that's how they get all those girls. you just gotta protect your heart and be careful who you let in. good luck!!!!
2007-01-13 21:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell if he's trustworthy. Sometimes reputations are undeserved and spiteful things are said by people with a hidden agenda. I hope for your sake that he cares for you.
2007-01-13 21:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.
take the risk and go out with him.
soon, you'll go to college, and never see many of the ppl in ur life again. take the risk
trust me, you do NOT want to leave regrets in ur high school years. ask him out. he sounds awesome. :P much like great bf material. ask him out and see what happens. you should not regret not having the guts to ask him out once you're in college
2007-01-13 21:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to tell if he is honest. Players are good. I was played. It hurts. They never want to be seriouse, no matter what!
2007-01-13 21:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysconfused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time to get to know him...trust your own instincts on whether or not he is a player...if he is and you don't move on prepare yourself for a lot of heart ache.
be cool
2007-01-13 21:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be silly and jump in with both feet.
Talk to him and take things very slow.....get to know him very well.
Make a judgment about him for yourself.
2007-01-13 21:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get emotionally attatched. have fun! and don't be suprised when he dumps you when you least expect it. you should definately not be exclusive with him. let him know that you also have options. players like playettes!! just don't give it up (be a ho) you will get dissed for sure!
2007-01-13 21:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful,,,words can fool anybody....maybe you should open your eyes and ears first...cause if he's a player then i don't think it's worth feeling like you do...maybe you should investigate more on this guy ,,,good luck...
2007-01-13 21:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋