If your Bf emails someone he used to flirt with and tell her "I still think about you" is that cheating?
2007-01-13 13:07:25 · 37 answers · asked by carla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have any doubt in your mind, it's probably true. Not all men cheat so don't waste your time on the cheaters and go find yourself a real man. Good luck!
2007-01-13 13:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men cheat for the same reason women do. You can't blame just one of us. As for the email, I don't think thats cheating, I am sure he does still think about an ex, dont we all? To some degree anyway. Though I am not saying that it won't lead to him cheating.
2007-01-13 13:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by MommaSchmitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your main question, why do men cheat? b/c society allows them to. I can go on and on feeding you a bunch of psycho-babble. That's the real answer!! To touch a few points, 1. People are confined in society to role-playing (gender roles), if a female has multiple bf's she's ridiculed more, sadly by women in general (they are labeled and talked about, and their deeds go unforgotten); if a guy has multiple gf's people make excuses (that's a phase, men are just being men, they are all dogs). The truth of the matter is they are not pressured like women to be faithful and monogamous. This comes from years of dominance of a patriarchal dominated society that has created a ripple in all generations.
the answer to your question about your bf, technically no its not cheating, but I would take it as a strike against his ethics/character b/c what he is doing is playing it safe on both sides of the field, enough not to get in too much trouble w/ you and just enough to keep her psyched up just in case he needs her on the rebound!!
2007-01-13 13:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by covergirl84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-13 13:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That act by itself is not cheating, at least in my opinion. But it's sure as heck indicative of something more going on, possibly cheating. You don't say stuff like that to someone for no reason.
2007-01-13 13:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It aint in their nature to cheat..
They choose to cheat..
Its the same with women we Choose to cheat..
We can stop ourselves from doing these things but with such temptations we dont..
If hes e-mailing her telling her that he still thinks about her well then obviously he still has feelings for her..
Comfront him about this and explain how you feel about this situation..
its the only way your gonna get the right answers your looking for..
Fingers crossed you'll get the answer you want..xx
2007-01-13 13:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by emma_18d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman cheat just as much as some men. And not all men cheat
2007-01-13 13:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by floydsimpalass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you bf lives with you or not & how old you both are......Men cheat b/c they are not ready to settle down with just one person, they aren't getting sex from that one person, or they are bored with that one person.
In any condition I would have issues with the e-mailing the other woman thing
2007-01-13 13:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by nealejess401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's at least thinking about being with this other person, so in a sense, he is not being true. But, give him credit if he is resisting the temptation. Women do this too, not just men.
2007-01-13 13:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men cheat for the same reasons women do.
2007-01-13 13:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by crikeyme_mate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋