Well the thing is, i want to have a boyf, loads of guys have asked me out and ive said no. It is because at the moment i dont want to settle, i just want to have fun with a good looking guy! The problem is all the guys that asked me were medium looking. Is it wrong of me to think this way? I just need someone who i will actually fancy, for once in my life. Ive never had that but i want to.
2007-01-13 13:04:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Am i being a superficial b****?
2007-01-13 13:09:14 · update #1
Yeah yeah, inner beauty is more important i know... but how can you go out with someone if you dont fancy them? I have friends for that...
2007-01-13 13:16:20 · update #2
Hey theres nothing worse than saying yes to a guy and then trying to figure out how to tell him you dont find him attractive later on. Wanting a boyfriend is fine but if you really want to go out with a good looking guy compared to a medium looking guy then continue to say no till you find that guy that makes you blush what might surprise you the most is that the medium looking guy can end up being ten times the person the hot guy is but if theres no physical attraction to any of these guys then i don't see anything wrong with you saying no
2007-01-13 22:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by Imogen228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're being pretty shallow. If all you're interested in is looks, then go ahead and ask out the hottest guy in schol, he's probably looking for the same thing you are. Personally, I think this is VERY wrong of you, but it's not my job to judge your lif style. If this is the way that is best for you, then go ahead. All I'm saying is that once you look at someone's personality rather than their looks, you'll be amazed by how much beauty you were missing out on. Once you see the beauty INSIDE people, you won't even care about their looks anymore. There are some really beautiful people out there, you just have to be willing to see them.
2007-01-13 13:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Carolinii 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's OK going for all the good looking lads for fun but when it comes to settling down u shouldn't evan think about looks it is what they are like as a person that counts what would you rather a good looking lad that will treat u bad or a average lad who will treat u well but you are not being shallow i think we have all done it at some point i was just lucky to find a pretty woman who treats me well to marry lol
2007-01-13 13:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go out with someone and have a date, doesn't have to mean anything except for getting to know someone. Best that can happen, you could get to like them a whole lot better and with that find them more attractive, worst that can happen erm... you've been ona date and maybe made a new friend.
2007-01-14 03:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by cruisingkerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not.. remian true to yourself.theres nothing wrong with sticking to what u want,u will respect yourself for it in the long run.it is character building to maintain your values or your expectations, you have them for a reason! i know how you feel, i havnt been chatted up by any1 i fancy 4 years! but i have seen a fair few fellas that i do fancy but havnt had the front to make the 1st move.maybe thats your dilema..u wanna have fun?..start chattin guys up uu fancy.good luck doll.
2007-01-13 13:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit shallow. I think the guys you have turned down have had a lucky escape. Some of the BEST blokes out there do not look like Clooney/Pitt/Depp/Bloom...
2007-01-13 13:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i know what you mean... you're not just talking about looks. Its the "fancy" thing. You gotta click with that person. Don't ever go for second best!
2007-01-13 13:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for some one to come along that you fancy!
Don't settle for less, you can't be intimate with some one you don't fancy!
You aren't being shallow - just true to yourself!
So take no notice of what people say! Some one will come along when you aren't expecting it!
Ok poppet!
2007-01-13 13:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by kiku 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats up to you. But you usually find that the really good looking men treat women like dirt anyway. So this may be how you end up being treated yourself...
2007-01-13 13:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
of course you're not wrong !!!!! everybody says that inner beauty is more important !!! but when you see a cute guy in the street you don't think " i hope he has a beautiful soul" !!! do you ?
2007-01-13 13:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by Evil but Wonderful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋