I have been interested in this girl for about a month now.
we have been on a date and txt all the time.
i have been lookin for a second date for a while now but she has been busy.
i dont want to look desperate as i am doing all the chasing. i even gave up my night for her and she only told me at 10 tonite she was tired and not up to anything.
so my question is how can i get her to chase me without lookin like i have checked out!?
2007-01-13 13:04:00 · 3 answers · asked by blondestring 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop texting until she contacts you...
2007-01-13 13:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been through exactly the same scenario...
Unfortunately he was constantly working and kept apologising and saying I would lose interest...
In the end I did and stopped texting...
He never text me either..
However, I don't hold a grudge and he was a nice guy, so I text him to say happy new year, within minutes he had text back saying he thought I would never speak to him again for messing me around so much.
I told him that was the way things went and that I wasn't prepared to lose a friend over something as silly as him being busy...
He been texting me regularly since, even asked me what I was doing tonight but I had already agreed to babysit for my sister...
I don't know what is gonna happen now, if anything, but it's turned the tables and its certainly made me feel better... Just knowing that he was genuinely interested, just the timeing was wrong..
Won't say you should do the same thing, but just hope my experiences help you make an informed decision..
Good luck.
2007-01-13 13:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by KJA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't look to promising.
Start to hold back on the texting. Give bigger gaps in between! Be a bit vague about what you are doing and keep something back!
Just be a bit mysterious!
Then see what happens!
2007-01-13 13:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by kiku 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋