my bf has this urge to party all of a sudden, now that im late, and possibly preg.
and wen he said party, he meant sleep around! >:(
wats up wit that?
he said he wish we would've waited to have a baby, and that we're too young [18]
but the fact is that we both knew the consequences of our actions..
how do i make him realize that?
any advice?
2007-01-13 12:53:56 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Knowing that you both knew the consequences of your actions and now he is playing games........
Sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do.
I hope you are ready for the consequences that you might have to handle alone.
The only advice I would give, is for you to be honest with him and tell him how much you love and care for him and tell him the truth >>how it makes you feel that he has the urge to "party"
Hoping it works out for you...
best wishes
2007-01-13 13:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not much you can do with a young guy that is not ready to be a father, but that is the sign. Same thing happened to me when i was young and got pg..then I guess he felt like he was going to be tied down and his single life was over so he started partying and running around. Only thing you can do is let him and if need be go on with your life and raise the child without him....
2007-01-13 20:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by jlynna10 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You dont make him do anything,
he doesnt want a baby. If you let it develop into a baby you are pretty much just telling him you dont care if he wants to be a daddy at 18 or not, you are going to make him.
The "consequences" of sex are ejaculation (if its good), the consequences of you deciding to let it develop into an actual baby have yet to be seen.
Its up to YOU.
2007-01-13 20:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Party is just a way to forget the real world.
2007-01-13 20:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
to late to back off now he will goow up when the baby comes
2007-01-13 21:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Serve him with child support papers.
2007-01-13 20:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You caNT ONLY he can make himself realize. Leave him and get child support. I apologize for my sex to all women whom this has happened to.
2007-01-13 20:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Dirty Sanchez 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell him he's gonna have to pay for the child one way or another... so he'd better get his act together.. he's scared!!!
2007-01-13 20:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u should use contraception...its ur own fault.
2007-01-13 20:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋