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Your family doesn't need to be present to make your marriage "right" or "valid." If you just want to tell them later...that's fine! (Or you could be like me...I've been married for almost 2 years and I STILL haven't told my family. Hehe) Do what makes you happy. That's all that matters now and in the end.

2007-01-13 12:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by IndyChic 2 · 2 0

I got married in Las Vegas without my family and it was the worst thing I ever did the marriage ended in less than two and a half years!!! And I know at least 4 people who were married there and are now divorced. Dont do it!!!!! If it is because its cheaper maybe you are better off waiting till you can do it right,

2007-01-13 13:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kitkat 1 · 0 2

People do that all the time. When they get back they have a reception or party and invite everyone to celebrate. There is nothing wrong about that. Do what you want its your wedding. If you want to go elope in Las Vegas then do it.

2007-01-13 12:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 1 0

What's right for some may not be right for others. This is a personal decision. But, if there are parents or any close family in the picture, you might want to consider their feelings. As a mother myself, I would be devastated if I could not be there to witness my daughter or son taking such an important step in his/her life. Hopefully, they will feel the same.

2007-01-13 15:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by weddingqueen 5 · 0 0

My sister in law got married in Vegas and we didn't go. You figure people have to buy a ticket, get a hotel room, have expenses while they are there, it gets quite costly. I think if you can't be bothered to get married where everyone can come, why should I bother to come.

2007-01-13 17:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa R 4 · 0 0

You sound very youthful. My sister is getting married in Sept and if i did not recognize extra ideal, i ought to imagine she revealed this. to respond to your question, someone will continuously experience disregarded at a small intimate wedding ceremony. I eloped and a large number of individuals were mad at me after we got here again and instructed anybody the archives. ultimately they were given over it and 15 years later, I were given divorced, yet I digress... You sound like you're already on the outs consisting of your destiny sister in regulation. even if she's a "debby downer", she's about to develop into your relatives. you need to be slightly added information and take the extreme highway. believe me, you're husband will savour this better than you recognize. no one should be stuck interior the approach 2 human beings he loves undesirable mouthing one yet another. save in ideas that is not all about you. i do not say this to be rude, yet you're literally not in effortless words marrying him, you're marrying his entire kinfolk and any judgements you're making impression all of them.

2016-11-23 16:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Only you can answer that question. We don't know your family. There must be a reason they don't want to attend.

Ask them the reason and tell them how disappointed you are that they will not be present for the "Most important day in your life."

2007-01-13 12:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I think the family who truely wants to be there will make an effort to make it. Stop worrying about others, remember this is your day!

2007-01-17 10:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by tiggy198077 2 · 0 0

if it's what you want, then no. this is something you're doing for you (i hope) not your family. just remember you'll have to live with your decision. God bless you & your marriage.
ps - play 50 bucks on red at the roullette table at Caesar's for me. Good luck honey!!!

2007-01-13 13:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by bigmamaflo 1 · 0 1

No....the two people who matter will be there.

When you guys get back have a really nice reception and invite everybody.

2007-01-13 12:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0 0

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