i m 15 this year and the girl old me 1 years old. can someone tell me how m i going to make the girl like me? we are from diff school , so its more difficult.she is shy n when i ask her out she don want.someone pls help me?
2007-01-13 12:44:36 · 11 answers · asked by chippy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, this should help :)
Be yourself - whether you're goofy, silly, crazy, or whatever. You've seen this advice before, and you'll see it again. Develop your identity as an individual and stick with it. There's no point in getting him to like someone you're not--you're only setting yourself up for disappointment (not to mention him!). Guys like confident, interesting girls who have their own lives.
Get his attention. He can't fancy you if he doesn't know you exist. If you haven't caught his eye yet, then get him to notice you. You've got to walk before you run, right?
Make conversation. Take an interest in who he is--what he likes, where he's coming from, where he wants to go--and show him who you are, too. While some guys don't like to talk that much, it's nearly impossible for someone to like you if he doesn't get to know you--unless he "likes" you for all the wrong reasons.
Crack a joke. Having a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn't mean you should be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Rather, learn how to find the ironies in life and point them out in a witty and interesting way. It's much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh with once in a while.
Do things together. If he loves rock-climbing, ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why he's so into it. Have an open mind. Find out what you have in common, and include him in your world. If you love a certain kind of music, ask him if he's ever listened to a particular artist and offer to play a CD for him. Finding activities that you can enjoy together can really lay down a bond and further his appreciation of you.
Be an all-around great person. If you focus on being a clean, motivated, kind, and humorous individual, how can anyone resist? Some guys might be intimidated, and they're too insecure to be worth your interest anyway. But it's only a matter of time before a guy who can like you for who you really are will come around and see that you're an awesome person to be around.
Have patience. These things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don't be obsessive. Let things progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes.
Pay attention. Eventually he'll tell you one way or another whether or not he's interested in reciprocating your affection.
2007-01-13 12:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
HAHA. thats easy you know girls can sometimes be outgoing or very timid and shy, but theres a reason behind that maybe shes just to shy cause maybe you will think that she is outgoing or easy to get, she maybe afraid of what will you think about her, making her special and letting her feel that she can lean on you is the best thing to do.Just relax and be patient to wait, analyz her movements and understand her actions maybe through that why you will understand why is she acting that way. Just give her all the time in the world and let her feel that you can wait for her.Be open and once you can make a girl laugh you can make her fall inlove to you.TRUST ME!
2007-01-13 12:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by mhiszcee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely not creepy. It's pretty romantic. If a love song was dedicated to me most likely i'd be speechless because people always think who would do that for me, and i'm one of those people.
2016-05-23 22:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, don't act like someone you aren't. If she doesn't go to your school, develop the talent of writing letters and making phone calls. Be her friend first and remember that that is what it is really all about.
2007-01-13 12:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by Dawn C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u r 2 ugly 4 her. If I wuz u Id just wackit and pretend u did it!
2007-01-13 12:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by whiteknight1040 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Studies come frst..Even u dont agrees, then if u r not her type there are NO ways to make her like u..GET IT?
2007-01-13 20:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make a girl like or love you.. move on
2007-01-13 12:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first write so we can freaking understand it and seondly grab her
and say lets go, that will get her to talk to you
2007-01-13 12:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by Robert H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" anyone feel anything. They either like you, or they don't.
2007-01-13 12:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u cant make someone love u..find someone else.
2007-01-13 12:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋