what do you think of me???

Question

im gonna be honest about myself so please dont report me.

negative:
i only go out on one night stands, i have no problem picking up hookers, i love getting drunk, i like to pop the occasional painkillers, downers, cocaine and marijuana (but i never do these drugs frequenlty enough to biuld an addiction). i tend to go for girls who have no respect for themselves. i party constantly, im a bartender. i love to go to vegas and gamble like crazy.

positive:
im very deep, very into philosophy, spiritual but very from from religious, friendly, loyal, funny, every woman i have had a real relationship with i have remaind loving caring and faithful and treat her with respect and like a queen. i see the world for what it realy is and dont exist in denial or delusion.

but what do you think of me? what kind of person am i?? am i messed up?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Hon, your just like the rest of us, human! As for being messed up you seem to have some good insight on what it is you need to do for yourself, only you can find the answer from within.

Start by seeking some professional help your problems, because otherwise you'll lose everything and everybody that you so love. Do the right for yourself and reach for some help, not later but now!

Answer 3

You are the kind of guy I stay away from.
You have sex with hookers. That makes you a risk.
You go for girls who have no self respect? Ick. I don't see how you have ever had a long term relationship.
Good luck.

Answer 4

u seem to know the good and bad things about yourself and only YOU can tell what kind of person you are. your positives are good but you need some help with your negative stuff. try to lay off the drugs and alcohol. gambling WILL get you into criminal probmes such as hustling and stealing. STOP DOING IT!

Answer 5

You are self-destructive and in need of a lot of help and even more love. I'll pray for you.

Answer 6

so u want to know the truth ? i really dont care. i could say yeah you need help or yeah dude party on! but why lie. i guess it all comes down does it make u happy. if it does i still dont care.

Answer 7

seems like you are having a problem. i think that you do need help to get you to see that you have to get your life together

Answer 8

DEPRESSION:

I believe that depression is caused from getting caught up in a vortex of negative thinking patterns where one can seemingly find no help, no hope, or no cure for what ails them. Depression is a disease that feeds upon negative thoughts. The very things we fear begin to manifest into our lives. I do not believe medications are the answer to curing depression. Boosting our own self-image and changing our thought patterns from negative to positive are the answers on how we can learn to manage or cure depression. This can be done easily enough, once you understand how, and it can be done by yourself, without expensive therapists or meds. This is my suggestion, and I sincerely hope it helps you. I know it has helped me tremendously with managing my own depression. It has to be done on a daily basis, or the depression will return.

Depression and anxiety are results of having false expectations of what you think life should be but probably never will be in reality. It is anger turned inwards. Are you truly depressed? Then set a challenging goal for yourself, commit to reaching it, and work harder than you have ever worked before in your life to reach that goal.

Take a product called Happy Camper, two capsules daily. You can buy this at an herb store. It works well on depression.

Take a homeopathic remedy called Anxiety Formula or one called Despondency.

Take a homeopathic remedy called Mood Fix.

Eat a couple bananas daily as they contain tryptophan.

If you suffer from depression as well as grief take the homeopathic remedy, Ignatia Amara 30X.

Take a brisk walk each day out in the fresh air. Do NOT look down at the ground while walking, but look off into the distance.

Keep a positive mental outlook as much as you possibly can. The Bible says, "As a man thinks, so is he." Proverbs 23:7

Don't blame others for your problems. Our own thoughts are what creates our lives.

You can change your negative thought patterns if you want. Your thoughts will manifest in your life. This has been scientifically proven with research.

My Totally Free Course, Change Your Mindset And Change Your Life can help you do this, so that within one month's time you can tell a big difference in your attitude and your own self-image.

Remember, just because suicidal thoughts enter your mind, does NOT mean that you have to take action on them. I am convinced that depressed people do NOT want to kill themselves. They just want some relief from their emotional pain. Being depressed is like being in the pits of an emotional hell every day. It is not possible to just shake it off, like some people think. No one would stay depressed if this could be done. But you can learn how to control your thoughts, feelings, and emotions.

There are some good sites online that offer depression help through learning self-hypnosis. I have tried hypnosis and it gave me complete relief for several days. EFT on my main self-help links page also helps. Check out the water and sea salt cure towards the end of this page.

Eat 1 cup cooked spinach every day.

Eat apples with milk and honey every day.

Eat cashews every day.

Take one to two grams of asparagus root powder in capsules once daily.

Drink lemon balm tea.

Eating foods rich in the vitamin B complex, such as whole grains, green vegetables, eggs, and fish helps restore vitality and cheerfulness to an individual. The diet of a person suffering from depression should completely exclude tea, coffee, alcohol, chocolate, soft drinks, white flour products, sugar, food colorings, chemical additives, white rice, and strong condiments. The diet should be restricted to three meals. Fruits can be taken in the morning for breakfast with milk and a handful of nuts or seeds. Lunch may consist of steamed vegetables, whole wheat bread, and a glass of buttermilk. For dinner, eat a green vegetable salad with bean sprouts, alfalfa seeds, mung beans, cottage cheese, and a glass of buttermilk.

A person suffering from depression can overcome it by being more active, turning away from himself, and diverting his attention towards other people and things. The pleasure of achieving something overcomes distress or misery.

Exercise also plays an important role in the treatment of depression. It not only keeps the body physically and mentally fit, but also provides recreation, mental relaxation, and is a natural tranquilizer. Exercise also tones up the body, provides a feeling of accomplishment, and reduces the sense of helplessness.

Depression cures are something that must be done daily, or it will return. It can be controlled by learning how to boost your own self-image and stop thinking negatively about yourself and others. Use positive affirmations daily.

A depressed person must learn the art of relaxation and meditation which will go a long way in curing depression. He must gain control over his nervous system and channel his mental and emotional energies into restful activities. This can be achieved by ensuring sufficient rest and sleep under peaceful and quiet conditions. Meditation will help create a balance in the nervous system. This will enable the hormonal glands to return to a correct state of balance and thereby overcome the feeling of depression.

Answer 9

always wear your rubbers when you go out into the damp and rain.