Ive been dating this guy for about a month or so...so far it has been really good, our friends introduced us...we spend almost everyday together...he called me a lot over Christmas when he went home to Mexico...it came an ice storm and he stayed over this weekend...we went to the store and I was helping him find some things...he looked at the condoms and said, "I need some condoms too" I said "Try the NaturalLamb ones, theyre the best"...he stuck him in the cart...we dont use condoms bc I take birthcontrol and we are both std free...he then said when we were in line..."you know...i need all the stuff that is in my cart"..."all of it"..."the razor, the bread, all of it"...is he just trying to get a rise out of me? Ive not been emotional with him and Ive never asked the "status" of our relationship. Last night we went out and i didnt pay a lot of attention to him...he made fun of my outfit and then called some girl and asked her to come hang out with us...whats up with him?
2007-01-13 12:16:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it turns out they were for me...i kept complaining about the birth control and said i wanted to stop it...i was pretty mean...but all is well...it was a language misunderstanding...
2007-01-14 05:19:11 · update #1
does he know you are "dating"??? maybe he just thinks you are friends with benefits... :D
2007-01-13 12:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
I suggest that you take the hints here think about this.. He is purchasing condoms etc and calling up other chics to hang out with you guys.
In my opinion this is clear as crystal, this guy is using you and you truly need to get out of this before you do get emotionally involved in this.
If this was any kind of man at all then he would'nt have been making fun of your outfit. And might I also add having sex with anyone(b/f) no matter if you think they are STD free isn't safe. I would advise you to have him to use protection if you stick with this creep. I say creep because he isnt showing you any respect what so ever moreless being disrespectful.
If you wish to become preg. by him that's your choice .. so your taking birth control. I don't mean to be harsh with you but unless you and this creep are sterile then your not 100% free from becoming preg.!!! And how do you know he is STD free? See any medical records? been with him to the doctors office to verify this information or you just going by what he is telling you?
Do think about this ... You sound like a very sweet person who is getting played and you deserve so much better than what your receiving from him the creep! Do yourself a favor and give him the heeveho!
Take care and best of luck to you !
2007-01-13 20:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some boys are just assholes. This one seems like that, he's trying to ditch you without breaking up with you. He doesn't wnat to go through all the emotional drama, so instead he'll make you hate him.
Inquire the status of your relationship, and whether his feelings for you have changed from when you started dating him.
Then you'll know what's up with him and you can take action from there. But most likely, it'd be best to break-up with a man like this.. too much trouble and heartache. Good luck.
2007-01-13 20:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Krista Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry about him anymore. He's having sex with someone else. And trying to tell you by being a jackass. You should make him use those condoms on you too. Why would you hang out with this person if he makes fun of you and then call someone else to hang out with you guys? Move past this animal. Don't let it get too bad were it's hurting your feelings. That's what it sound like he's trying to do.
2007-01-13 20:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him, and you should be using condoms for protection against STD's and HIV, especially if he's sleeping with other girls. Maybe he thinks your relationship isn't exclusive and he can sleep with other people. He's either trying to play it really cool, or he's assuming you're both seeing other people. You also need to find out who this other girl was because if he's sleeping with her, it wasn't very sensitive of him to invite her to hang out with you, or to make fun of your outfit. He doesn't sound very respectful toward you, I would be considering getting a new boyfriend.
2007-01-13 20:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to get rid of you, he has done everything he can think of, to get you to break-up with him, because he is too much of a coward to break-up with you. He is a class one jerk, lose his number, now, get the cell out and hit delete, you deserve better, don't allow anyone to treat you like this, don't even shed a single tear, just laugh at how pathetic he is.
2007-01-13 20:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a loser to me. Seriously, girl, why do you want to hang out with someone who not only buys condoms you KNOW he won't be using with you, makes fun of your clothes AND calls some other chick to "hang out"?! Ditch him, quick, before he makes a fool out of you.
2007-01-13 20:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Leah~Ariana is due Oct. 09~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sound like he testing you , to she how far he can get to you. I would of just laugh out loud and say to him. I'm to grown for this kind of mind game call me when your ready to act like a grown person should.
P.S this is also no respect for you don't let it counties
2007-01-13 20:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Iris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sit down and have a looooong talk with this guy who is supposedly your "BOY FRIEND".You need to ask him where you'll stand in your relationship.With that kind of behavior ,he's obviously not your significant other.
2007-01-13 20:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be as blunt as possible. Dump him before you get too attached, and this is coming from a guy.
If you don't, well, then just enjoy the crying.
2007-01-13 20:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by jedil64931 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're sleeping with a guy that you haven't even talked to about the "status" of your relationship? It was doomed from the start.
2007-01-13 20:26:40 · answer #11 · answered by bridiedarlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋