I am a college student who lives with my dad, my aunt, and her boyfriend. I've been here for almost 2 years and I'm miserable. You see, my aunt has a bad drug problem and refuses to get a job. She has it in her head that she is the head of the house hold when she does nothing. She dosen't even clean the freaking house! I also have an uncle and a cousin who sell drugs. They use our house as a stash spot. I get so nervous that a bust will occur and I will be caught up in the mix of it. Not to mention, 5 months ago my aunt attacked me with her fist. I want to move out, but I have no $ (even if I did, I still have poor credit) and I don't want to hurt my dads feelings. We are very close and I love him very much. He has offered that the both of us can move out, but this is his home. It's is also the families home, so people are free to come and go as the please. I don't know what to do. The move I live here. The more depressed I seem to get, on top of the extra stress I have. What can I do
2007-01-13 12:14:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to get out of there.
Good Luck
2007-01-13 12:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost don't stress your self to the extint of a stroke beleive me it can happen it did to my fiance(it ain't worth it)Secondly who gives a hoot that is is/was the family home SELL the sucker and get out with your dad.If they don't move your father can have them removed if it's his house but you have to choose what you want to do first.There is no where in the world that a person has to put up with BULL--IT from family/friends.If you feel you are being jepordized by all of this get out.Your father has to agree and if he dosen't it's your life do what you have to do..GOOD LUCK remember only YOU can prevent forest fires and I am not talking about a literal forest...
2007-01-13 12:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you do, you seriously go to the police station and you tell them your story, you tell them this must be a private issue bacause you are in college and your scared all this is happening to you, you will be talked alone..don't be afraid, because in the long run everyone will thank you ..for helping them if this is how to do it. Don't be scared ok, there are also shelters and don't be afraid to go into one , they will even help you more knowing your in college and your alone, please do this for the sake of you all.
2007-01-13 12:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by Gina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make an anonymous call to the police about the illegal activities going on in your home. call more than once if necessary. at least get the sick people out so you can have a healthier living environment. if they are truly addicts, you might just be saving their lives.
2007-01-13 12:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you make an anonymous call, you will go to jail too. Just go to the YWCA and tell them you're homeless and you need transportation to school. Leave all the problems behind ask your dad if he wants out too.
2007-01-13 13:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should move out with your dad because if you think about it what is worth more to you..... leaving the house behind or ending up in jail someday if they get caught ...anyways if its just your dad and you , you guys will have less problems
2007-01-13 12:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by c2and4fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋