ok i am desperate for help on this situation guys so please help! well ok.. so this guy has been really interested in me.. texting and/or calling every single night for like the past three weeks.. and we've been on two dates already (one both weekends)... but then all of a sudden now he never texts me on his own without me texting first, and he never answers my questions when i do text. is he just falling out of interest or something? that is all i can think of.. because it's hard to not assume the worst.. when he has made such a drastic change. and i don't want to seem too clingy or needy or whatnot so i don't want to ask him.. although he has been very clingy to me.. until just recently obviously. so yeah. (sorry probably giving too much info than you care to hear.. but hey i am confused and desparate as i have said before, haha) so anyways.. help out on this one would be GREAT!!! :D thanks all who answer this question (and get through reading it.. lol) have a great day everyone!
2007-01-13 12:13:01 · 7 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i am not overweight at all thank you very much...
2007-01-13 12:24:03 · update #1
and thanks all you guys who have already answered...
2007-01-13 12:24:40 · update #2
well thanks for your comments on the situation Mark K... i agree with you.. the only reason i thought i might appear too "clingy" and such was because of what Everyone else was telling me.. I myself wanted to just ask him.. but then again, i don't know exactly how to just ask what happened.. so that's another factor.... what would you say in your COMMUNICATING to bring it up and everything..??!
2007-01-13 12:35:51 · update #3
My guess is he doesnt want to seem to eager which he has been over the past few weeks based on your description.
Just carry on as normal!
2007-01-13 12:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Cool Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These questions are so common.
The answer is simple.
COMMUNICATE.Talk to him.
How can any of us possibly know whats in his head from the information you've given us?
Ask HIM why he doese'nt text as often.
You guys are casually dating,this isn't an engagement.You won't appear too "clingy"
WHATS WRONG WITH GUYS AND GIRLS
THAT THEY HAVE TO PLAY THESE IMMATURE LITTLE GAMES IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT MAKES EVERYONE GUESS THIER TRUE FEELINGS???????
Talk to each other in a mature,straight forward manner and say what you mean and mean what you say.
This is not rocket science folks.
2007-01-13 12:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any thank you to faux that's no longer a difficulty. so which you ought to take the initiative and confront her with emails. i could propose you do it on the way out of city on a employer trip so which you will legitimately circulate away her on my own and don't ought to handle the emotions. enable her understand which you assume an entire explanation and plan for the destiny once you come back. enable her understand which you do no longer intend to answer her telephone calls or emails yet do assume an person communique once you come back. evaluate having some style of handbook recent once you come back. somebody impartial who can save the communique effective and shrink the emotionalism. sturdy good fortune
2016-12-12 10:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanx 4 answering my Q returning the favor ok i doubt he lost interest and he is probably playing hard to get so u will get clingy because he most likely likes clingy so u just have to play hard to get and then he will be calling u every nite again:-)
2007-01-13 13:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by gdluver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it could be anything he could have a girlfriend or even just plain lost interest but hey if he doesn't want you it's not worth it anymore so just blow it off it seems to be bothering you to much
2007-01-13 12:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by russellpeltierjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was one of them guys. he probably didnt like the shape of your body. maybe you are overweight??
2007-01-13 12:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might not be interested any more
2007-01-13 12:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋