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2007-01-13 12:11:10 · 18 answers · asked by janet-f@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Everyone is jealous from time to time. But if his jealousy is out of hand, then you may need to end the relationship until he is emotionally and mentally healthy to be in a relationship.
A relationship should have two whole people to make it really work. Great jealousy is a sign of insecurity and low self-esteem. This is not a person ready to be in a committed relationship.

2007-01-13 12:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0 0

It depends on how jealous he is, & if he has reason to be. Some guys are just going to be jealous for no reason. My last boyfriend was so jealous he would turn around and walk toward men in the mall who just looked at me, & I wasn't even aware of it. He would stare men down if he thought they were looking at me even when they were looking at the lady behind me. And it was ALL men, at my family dinners etc., he didn't even like for me to give a greeting hug to my brothers in law & my adult sons. He couldn't stand it if I talked to my sisters w/o him standing there to hear what we said. When he walked in the room & I was on-line, he would almost run over & lean in & ask what I was doing, as if to catch me. After a year of stuff like this I thought he would finally see I never did anything I wasn't supposed to, and that he would stop, but he didn't. I lost a year of my life to this man, continually trying to assure him I loved him. And I got so tired of his suspiciouns.
He would not even go to the bath room with the door closed, no matter how bad he smelled, cuz he was afraid I would do something he would miss! His extreme actions destroyed our relationship. And yes, I tried so hard, I never screamed at him or got upset. I was kind & I peacefully, talked to him about this many, many times. I even broke off the relationship a few months in, & told him why. He SAID he would change, but didn't.
If your Honey is as bad as mine was, save yourself some trouble.... Get out now! He will never change!!!

2007-01-13 12:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by ICUsmile 3 · 0 0

Depends on why he is jealous. Does he have a good reason to be? I think it's sweet when a guy gets jealous just because you are talking to another guy. It shows he cares.

2007-01-13 12:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by momathome 2 · 0 0

depends how jealous he is. There are certain signs to look for. Cuz some guys are just jealous b/c they love u, then there are other guys who r jealous and put there hands on u, and that aint love. i had a man who put his hands on me cuz i wouldnt give him my password to all my accounts like myspace or BP or aim... and everytime a guy talked to me and he wouldnt let me talk to any of my guy friends anymore. But if hes jealou like that then u need to get out... it wont get any better. even if u love him, but love hurts, and u dfont wanna end up in the hospital cuz of some asshole, or even dead.

2007-01-13 12:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your boyfriend is jealous of who? Or do you mean a jealous ex?

2007-01-13 12:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Cool Dude 2 · 0 0

There is no such thing as jealous. It is more like a neediness. Tell him to stop being so needy or else it is over.

2007-01-13 12:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by DVD 3 · 0 0

Tie him to a chair and have a man come over and you both make out in fornt of him, finishing with you resting your heeld foot on his chest, then say "any question"?

2007-01-13 12:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by docile_fool 1 · 0 0

If you've given him NO REASON to be jealous...then tell him he needs to grow up or you'll be leaving

2007-01-13 12:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0 0

If you are flirting or looking at other guys, stop it. If you have friends who are boys, would be ok with him having girls as friends? If it is not worthy jealousy, explain to him he has nothing to worry about.

2007-01-13 12:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by sally 2 · 0 0

Do yourself a favor and give him the boot! He's got problems!

2007-01-13 12:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by sundayschool 2 · 0 0

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