How can I go out with a bang?
2007-01-13 12:08:35 · 36 answers · asked by jedil64931 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Dump her at the alter.
2007-01-13 12:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by desert_tiger 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
This is terrible. And I can't believe I'm actually answering...but I thought the question was cute...out with a bang huh? lol...Anyway, I actually had a friend that had concrete proof his girl was cheating...and it's gotta be concrete or life is totally over. But what he did...was make sure his very best buds attended the wedding, and then treated it like one big party. Did the vows and whatev and then drank as much alcohol as possible at the reception. Made possible by Father of the Bride's pocketbook. And at the very end before guests began to leave, he made a toast to "bachelorhood courtesy his new unfaithful bride", kissed the maid of honor and walked out with all "his boys". When everyone was confused and went to follow him...they found polaroids scattered in the church parking lot.
Now I'm not suggesting this, and I really don't know the consequences that followed it, other than I know for sure he had it anulled 9 days later. But as far as everything else goes...whether you love her and wanna work it out, or have some legal things done...all up to you. Think about it, sleep on it, marriage is not a joke...But once you've made up your mind, stick to your guns and best of luck! My condolences on the cheating bride :(
2007-01-13 12:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Bliss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you positive this is going on? I heard a story where this happened and the groom had pic of his future wife in bed with the best man. Supposedly he went ahead with the wedding, and at the reception told everyone he had a surprise for them. Taped to the bottom of each chair was a pic of the bride and best man together. Then he had it annulled. Why go thru all the bother. Call off the wedding.
I'm sorry things didn't work out for you, but better finding out now than after the wedding. If you really want to go out with a bang, tell us what you do or at least some ideas.
2007-01-13 12:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your really wanting to get even with her there are a couple of things you can do~ 1) stand her up at the alter; or 2) go through with most of the wedding, and when your supposed to say "I Do" say something like "No- I don't wanna marry a lying cheating b**** like you" and walk out! But no matter what you don't want to marry her no matter how much you love her! If she's gonna cheat on you before your married, she'll cheat on you after your married!
2007-01-14 03:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her waiting at the church...forever!!!!!
that would be great, but probably not the best thing. Confront her. She what she says. Unless this proof is that you saw it with your own eyes, give her a chance. I'm not taking sides, I would just hate for you to not marry her because of some misunderstanding or gossip. 'Going out with a bang' is not going to make you feel any better. Good luck....
2007-01-13 13:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by redsox fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit them down now and find out face to face. Let her know that if it is true then you will not be getting married to her and she can do what she wants with everything that has paid for already.
I wouldnt try and embarrass anyone at the event because unless you walk in on them- what type of proof do you have (besides pics or live video?)
Just be the bigger man and find out. Then if it is true, cancel the wedding. No need to waste everyones time.
2007-01-13 12:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have an idea CALL OFF THE WEDDING!!!! How can you marry someone who obviously doesnt love or care about you. The ONLY reason she is marrying you is because so she can have a wedding! Sorry your heartbroken but it will get better with time. Confront her with the proof that you have also while your at it get rid of your so call friend! He is no good either.
2007-01-13 12:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it is to find out the person you love is cheating but before you take the routes that lead to embarassment Talk to her. Just put it all out there...if she loves you she'll come clean and if it's true love after some counselling maybe you guys can move on.
By the way what about your so called friend, a real friend does not keep you in the dark or **** your girl.
2007-01-13 15:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by JahJah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta confront her about it and show her the proof you have. Then decide if she's really the one for you? I mean seriously, if she can't take the commitment seriously now, then what makes you think she'll be able to after you get married? And if she "really loved you" she wouldn't be out sleeping with your friend...and what kind of friend is that to sleep with your woman a week before your wedding?
2007-01-13 12:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Amber W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married to a girl that I knew was cheating also. I turned a blind eye hoping that things would get better. I thought that terminating the wedding would inconvenience too many people. If I could go back and do it again, I would not have gotten married. You will not be happy, and even if she never cheats again, you will never learn to trust her. CANCEL the wedding. You need to think about yourself and your life. Trust me. Been there done that.
2007-01-13 12:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by lee g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband was a groomsman at a wedding last year with the same situation. In MS we have 30 days to annul the wedding... so he went along with everything... even the vows. During the reception he was giving a speech and asked everyone to look under their chairs. It was a picture of his new wife and his best man! He told them he hoped they had a wonderful time and maybe even a wonderful future together. He had the wedding annulled the following Monday. It was one interesting day.
2007-01-13 15:32:55 · answer #11 · answered by mrslang1976 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋