I'm confronting my ex on Monday about the way he dumped me(by phone)and the way he's treated me these last few weeks. I'm worried and nervous about seeing him because i have so much to say and worried i wont get my words out,i dont want to cry,how do i be strong?i was thinking of drinking a few shots of vodka,is this ok?
2007-01-13 12:07:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A few shots ? No. One shot is ok. Rehearse what you want to say to him in front of the mirror a few times.Write down the main points.Don't be intimidated by him.When two people are in a confrontation,one will be on the offensive,while the other will be on the defensive.
Rip into him from the get go and don't let up.
He hurt you and you need to vent i.e. be heard and validated.
Good luck to you!
2007-01-13 12:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you even want to meet him any way? If he dumped you by phone, then he has no class and you can definitely find someone better for a sweet girl like you. If he wants to apologize and you want to hear it, then take your chances, let him do the talking and then tell him you’ll get back to him on that.
2007-01-13 20:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by last_of_the_romantic_men 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not nervous about meeting him..... to be strong, work out morei recommend 3 pound weights do multiple reps to get some good strength... drinking vodka will jus make u look like an *** cuz ull be drunk and u wouldnt get your words out clear... jus say to him f off and never see him again... take it from someone who knows jus leave ... he wont take you back ... jus move on its the best way to get over things
did that help or what?
2007-01-13 20:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by linkin_brandon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why give him that satisfaction? He isnt worth a dime. Treat him like he is retarded. say everything to him slowly. And use small words.
2007-01-13 20:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by queenmeow16 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HELL NO YOU'LL ONLY END UP IN BED AND WHEN YOU WAKE UP IS LIKE HE NEVER LEFT. GO AND LISTEN AND THAT'S ALL YOU DO. NOW IF YOU STILL HAS A CRUSH IT'S UP TO YOU BUT THIS TIME REMEMBER IT COULD HAPPEN AGAIN.
2007-01-13 20:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by MR DESTINY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont drink, you just have to get it out.
2007-01-13 20:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by Cool Dude 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no. smoke a little herb. that will calm your nerves better.
2007-01-13 20:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by Katy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be confident
2007-01-13 20:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋