I cannot stand to be around my step-mother because she is always rude to me and is constantly putting me down because of my life. I am very frustrated because my father alway takes her side.
2007-01-13 12:07:39 · 15 answers · asked by tinkerbell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There are reasons everyone says something.
There might be some right in what she says.
Talk to them about it.
Good Luck
2007-01-13 12:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem except vice versa. I have a step-father and my mother consistently takes his side. I know your pain with it.
I am 17, and have been around my step-father for about I think, 8 years now and the situation has only grown more. I am even going to be trying to get out of the house soon, like I was trying to get out about a year ago. It's a lot of pressure, but sometimes you just gotta deal with it and say fuccck you. Soon you will be legal to get out of there and you'll be free from the people.
Other than that, talk to your father and tell him things have to be fixed. Go to a counselor in your school and tell them what is going on, because realeasing the negativity really will help you.
I hate to say this but things in your family right now probably will never change, because parents are parents. Just try not to talk with your family much, listen to music, draw, write, sleep, relax. Do what you need to, to feel relaxed from them.
2007-01-13 12:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step families don't just 'blend' on their own, they need a lot of work on everyone's part, to work well. You will need to earn her respect and a good place to start would be to have a mature conversation with her and your Father to find out what the problem is. Is it your life that is the issue, or does she resent you because of your parents previous relationship. Do you resent her for your parents not being together? Could you maybe get counselling as a family? It would be nice to think if you explain you are unhappy that they will take responsibility for improving the relationships in your family. I hope things improve for you.
2007-01-13 12:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i visit relate to what you're dealing with. I actual have a grand baby that loves guns. His dad is a cop on the city and he thinks it truly is in effortless words too cool to tug a gun on someone. You (as a step-discern) ought to set regulations on your position no be counted what occurs. He needs to carry close that you're the queen of your position and do not except something a lot less. he will ultimately except your regulations and commence to stay by technique of them once you position your foot down. There are magnificent procedures of handling the problem. don't be the undesirable guy. you'll remorseful about that later. good success.
2016-11-23 16:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself if you truly have a problem with the step-parent. If you acuaully think you do try seeing it in a different point of view. When you are certain that you do have a problem talk to someone youfind trust worthy or understanding about it.
2007-01-13 12:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by wish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think you have problems i have a friend that has a stepmother whos abusive especially when she's drunk so stop thinking that you've got problems just tell her to shut her face and same to your dad when he takes her side she probably only does it because she cant stand the way she looks you ill bet your a very beautiful
2007-01-13 12:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by jax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should try talking to your dada telloing him how u feel but if u have done that already thentell your step mom dat you feel she dosent like you or that she tends to be rude ......make her see that your not enjoying your life becuz of her but you dont be rude because then you will be the same person as her
2007-01-13 12:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Te Amo PaRA SIeMPrE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are you? How long has this woman been your step-mother? Can you go to another adult friend, or relative? Really need more information.
2007-01-13 12:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by mo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be arround her!
I bet it upsets her day too when she sees you.
She has to love and respect your dad, she doesn't owe you a thing.
Have a relationship with your dad, but not around her. Everybody will be happier.
2007-01-15 17:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your better than her, so just dont grace anything she says with a response or just agree incoherently. People can be mad at you for what you dont say, but at least it isnt what your saying that is making them mad because they cannot force you to say stuff that is mean or talking back
2007-01-13 12:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋