ok I'm 15....THis girl is really pretty...and I wanna get to know her better...but...I've never even talked to her before.....like only for 5 minute.and thats it...but..I think she's "talking" to someone..but all her friends say I have a chance........that they heard her talkin good about me to her bestfriend.now..I wanna ask her best friend, if I have a shot, cuz she would know, and I just dont wanna come outa the blue, and ask the girl...and..i wanna get her email adreessss also, ...like I said..ive never talked to her..so I need some good advice...and shes popular..and so am I, and not tryin to be cocky, but I'm good lookin...i just need soem good advice..oh yeah ..im 15..shes 13..and Im focusing on my studies as well..so ..yeah.. but like yesterday..she wouldnt' even look at me..idk why?.( thats when she found out I liked her)..oh yeah...her friend " aproves" of me.so would it be bad 2 ask her wut she knows?..i can get her email from a friend..is that a bad idea
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i mean i can get my crushes email from a friend....she didnt give it to me..like i said ..I've never really talked to her..If I emaieled her..would it be a bad idea???I mean what would I say?? advice
2007-01-13 11:57:41 · 12 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah... talk to her friend
it seems like you have a big fat chance
2007-01-13 12:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by *Harley* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there
Its really good to hear that your studies are a priority! As for your new found crush - take it easy, what have you got to loose? Strike a simple concersation one day if you see her round school - the worst that could happen is she would say "not interested"! And if she isn't there are PLENTY of other opportunities in the world for you :) Never the less ask her what she's into or mention some thing you both may have in common eg: Surfing etc.. and if you do have some thing in common like that suggest you 'hang out' for a weekend??? Take it slow- dont scare her off by being too full on. Girls need alot of Affection,attention and honesty! hope this helps :)
2007-01-13 12:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by chicka86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you will ever get a girl to say yes, is to ask her. Songs are written about the one who got away, because she was never asked. I understand it is hard to take a no because your ego is on the line, but in 10yrs the opinions of most of your classmates will no longer matter, but the what if can haunt you for your entire life.
Take the step and talk to her. The worst she can say is no. If she does go find someone else treat her like a queen, and show the other girl that she missed out on having a great guy. If she says yes, treat her like a queen and she will appreciate having a great guy.
James
2007-01-13 12:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this should help :)
Get yourself out there and let the world know you're available! Maybe the girl you're crushing on is crushing on you too, but thinks you're taken. Drop hints that you like her or just bluntly say so. Get involved in activities. Girls like guys that are doing things - especially sports. And on the plus side, if you join a school team, more girls will notice you so you have more options.
Be bold. Girls always like confidence, so tell her what you have to say. There is always a time for subtleties later.
Humor is always a great way to win over girls. By doing this you make that special someone feel more comfortable around you. Try to avoid dirty jokes and such (ie, jokes that your guy friends would find funny), and mostly go on wit and quips.
Be romantic and sweet to her.
Be yourself. Girls like boys who are themselves. And make sure you know the girl! While girls appreciate an honest boy, if who "you" are is not what the girl is into, you're not going to get very far...If she won't like you for who you truly are, she's not worth it.
Talk to her about stuff she is interested in - such as music she likes. Most importantly, try to get her to talk about herself, then build on that. People are naturally more comfortable talking about themselves anyway. Think of it as an opportunity to find out more about this girl so you can determine if you want to pursue her further. Also, if you are stuck on some conversation starters, remember the two starters that always seems to work: food and weather. Be funny and crack a joke every now and then or tell a girl an embarrassing story, but don't gossip! Most girls hate guys who gossip, but love guys who are funny.
Call her and ask to hang out. If you get to know each other better you may end up going out or you may end up realizing she wasn't the girl for you anyways.
Always be polite. Take into consideration the girl's feelings.
Be a gentleman. Open the door for her, pull out her chair before she sits down, don't interrupt, etc. Those things show a poised, graceful man, and girls like that. You can't act like you do around your male friends.
Compliment her. Just make sure that you are sincere, don't just make something up- if you look for something that really makes you like her, she'll know that you're interested in getting to know her better. Also, know the right ways to compliment. Some girls like it if you say "DAAAAMMMNNN!!" when they walk into the room, but some would be really offended. To be safe, be nice, cute, and above all, not creepy. Leering is a definite turn-off.
Don't be too clingy. Give her space.
2007-01-13 12:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definite! under no circumstances,under any situation,take a snoozing pill and a laxative on an identical night. there is an enormously nice line between "interest" and "psychological ailment." you mustn't confuse your profession including your lifestyles. under no circumstances lick a steak knife. the main unfavourable stress in the universe is gossip. and you mustn't in any respect say something to a girl that even remotely advise which you think of she's pregnant till you will discover an particularly toddler rising from her at that 2nd.
2016-12-16 04:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by binford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm 13 and you're 15 right? Girls my age like guys older because they're supposed to be more mature than guys our age. So if you're pretty confident about youreself you should talk to her more often. If you're so cool and good-looking, stop being shy and have the guts to talk to her.
Take my advice from experience:
Love Cristina
2007-01-13 12:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by Cristina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firts explain how you got her email, then go for it. What is the worst that can happen? If she asks why you got it from her friend, then tell her you were too scared to get it from her, too shy to ask her strait out. I wish you the best of luck dear...hope things work out.
2007-01-13 12:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by momofatsc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NO e-mail her unless she gives it to you. And if you talk to her best friend let her know your interested and have her talk to her for you. Let her come to you after that, that'll show you that she wants something to do with you. So take it easy and be careful, you sound like a sweet guy, be careful.
good luck!
2007-01-13 12:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't email her unless she gives you the email adress. just talk to her. it can't be that hard, people have been doing it for years. she will either talk back or not. either way it could mean anything, you are both very young. don't get too involved.
2007-01-13 12:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by michele46us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it wtas the worst that could happen... she'll say no: who cares you say your hot anyway
2007-01-13 12:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋