lady #1 is more financially secure, more relaxed, and I've been with this lady longer, (4 years) and I LOVE her deeply, in a spiritual, emotional, loving way..our differences compliment us...she's 12 years my senior...lady #2 is 2 years younger than me, we have argued on and off for the 2 and a half years i have known her. She is a very deep, heavily guarded individual who doesn't show her feelings well. she's not as financially well off, but i fell in love with her honesty and her tenderness..the sex is intense with her too..She expresses herself well through making love!!! I know deep in my heart that lady #1 is the best choice..(my friends agree), but i have the other one in my heart and on my mind more than i should....whom should i choose, and how to let the other lady go for good, so i can have a meaningful future with the other lady!! Please help! Thanks@ :)
2007-01-13 11:57:14 · 3 answers · asked by cutegirlin_tn 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make up your mind and choose one or the other, so that everyone can get on with their lives.
2007-01-13 12:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry...but I agree with the answer above mine...you cant be with two people at once and expect to have one in the end...thats dishonesty..I realize you feel conflicted...and you feeling conflicted at all means that lady number 1 never had you completely as interested as you had thought.
2007-01-13 12:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont deserve either of them because youre with them both at the same time and its dishonest. You should tell them both what youve been doing, and I guess if one of them chooses to stay with you anyways, thats the one you have to choose, but I doubt either of them would want to stay.
2007-01-13 12:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by * 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋