I am friends with this girl and now I'm starting to like her as a girlfriend, how should I tell her?
2007-01-13 11:36:38 · 9 answers · asked by Tyler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me. This will work. No matter what. You don't even have to act well, or whatever.
Tell her you're sorry, you can't keep around her. You can't talk on the phone anymore or see her, unless it was by mistake. She'll be all like why and surprised. Look at her and slowly smile, maintain eye contact. Once its a full smile, slowly let it down then look away, still turned toward her. Slowly turn your attention back to her and say, "Sometimes what's right in the end just doesn't feel good. But at least you'll know you will definitely be right." Then, while she's still confused, take one hand and then the other and hold them firmly, but not tightly. Squeeze a time or two then let go and say not to worry, because you still think well of her. Meanwhile tell your friends THAT ARE NOT ALSO HER FRIENDS that you felt wierd liking her and awkward with the platonic setup, but more awkward hiding your tension. But that since you don't know if she would have made a good girlfriend for you (i.e. you would have "worked together"...) that you'd prefer not to risk messing up your fond memories of her.
Don't allude to the idea that she might have ever said no. If they tease you, just take the high route and say, "Nah. I'm pretty sure she would have said yes. Actually, I don't know. Maybe I should have just gone for it really. All I know is that I can't go back to being just friends, that was lame once I felt differently." Bet on it - this will get back to her eventually (like by 4th period). I could go into the psychology but its irrelevant. Anyway, she'll be intrigued. Believe me. Its easy. Wait till you get to college - THEN they get complicated. Still easy for those of us who know how to play the game though, wink.
Good hunting, you won't need luck anymore.
2007-01-13 11:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by ergonomia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just invite her over and tell her there, or take a walk with her. Anything simple and private, really. Don't tell her all these big words, just plain and simple "I like you". Most girls don't like anything overly public, dramatic, or fancy the first time you tell them.
2007-01-13 19:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by imaforestspirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to the place where it says "search for questions" and type in "turn a friend into a girlfriend."
2007-01-13 19:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant really get her to like you. If she didnt like in that way before that i dont think she will now. But if she does has interest then i suggest being a little more flirty while be funny.
2007-01-13 19:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by tastykumquat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really do anything bout it juss be u if she dun like u for u than u shouldn't try
never change for one girl....
also if she don't like you for you than she's most likly missing out on something very good
2007-01-13 19:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could slip a note into her locker. Or just become offering more of your self adventually she will notice,. I wish you the best.
2007-01-13 19:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by Cynthia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance and ask her out so might say yes, but if she does not just keep being friends with her.
2007-01-13 19:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kaylee Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might like u as much as u like her..give it a try and find out for sure
2007-01-13 19:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Holy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with her but be prepared if she doesn't feel the same
2007-01-13 19:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by mom of two 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋