Making out?

Question

I am young 15 to be exact and i have a boy friend Troy.
What if he and I want to make out and he is the kind of guy who might lead to sex? I don't want kids.
But i am scared i mean what if my parents find out.
any kissing tips?

Answer 1

Don't take it too far. Keep your clothes on. Lay down the rules and explain to him if he even asks you to break him, you won't make out with him anymore and stick to your guns.

Also, kids aside, don't forget about herpes, warts, HIV, gonnorhea, etc.

Answer 2

You are both at an age where your hormones are raging and sending all sorts of signals to your brains. Be aware that if Troy is a normal boy then his hormones are urging him to have sex. It's kind of like an internal battle boys have to fight as on the one hand they don't want to scare you off or get into trouble but on the other hand they have this new biological urge to procreate. He will hope that you might feel the same urges that he does but you don't have to deal with high testosterone levels (unless you drink alcohol so avoid that). Of course he may attempt to persuade or convince you that if you care at all for him you will have to prove it with sex but don't fall for that old one. You can always counter that by asking him about babies etc but be aware that typically he will only give the response he thinks you'll want to hear. But have some sympathy for him... those hormones are a powerful influence!

Anyhow... there's a thing called "contraception" that stops you having babies. Education is the key. ASK!

Don't know what your parents are like but most (normal) parents are kind of pleased to find their daughter has her first boyfriend. It's a sign that their little girl is growing up. Perhaps you should tell them. Remember- they went through all this stuff at the same age as you.

As for kissing... just go with it, you'll get better with practice but try to do it without losing your clothes.

PS. Best ignore the christians- they have less practical knowledge of sex than they have of relationships and their perception of the real world is quite warped.

Answer 3

Making out won't get you pregnant. And just because you start kissing, doesn't mean it will or has to lead to sex!!! There are a lot of things that you can do that don't include 'having sex'. He needs to respect your boundries... if you're not ready, or if you don't think he's the guy you want to give it to... DON'T.

I was 15 when I was in the same position as you.... we waited 9 months to have sex, but I went to the doctor (by myself) and got myself on birth control!!!

Your parents might be angry with the thought of you having sex, but it will be easier if you are honest with them, and show responsibiliy by getting on birth control!! Knowing that you don't have to worry about geting pregnant will help you relax and enjoy the time spent with your boyfriend.

Answer 4

He is the kind of guy that might lead to sex?

That doesnt even make sense girl.

I think that means you are too young to make out. You need to wait until you are old enough to say NO and mean it. REALLY mean it. You don't have sex because you don't want to lose the guy or because he leads you to it or because you think it's the thing to do. You have sex because you thought about it for a long time and you are mature and ready to do so.

You might consider getting on the birth control pill. Carry condoms. Never ever have unprotected sex, even if you are on the pill.

Your parents my dear would be pissed, and they should, because you are too young to have sex. If Troy can't respect that tell him to hit the road. The best boyfriends I have ever had have been the ones who never pressured me or tried to go too far. They were respectful and took things slow.

Answer 5

dont make out at places where you all are by yourselves and then you most likely wont have to worry about it leading to sex.
Talk it over with him. Know what you want in life and dont let anyone mess things up for you.
I am not going to b___ at you and tell you you are to young because I am only 22 and I know where you are coming from.
Just be careful and if you do end up having sex make sure he uses protection or you need to get on birth control since you dont want a baby.
I dont recommend having sex unless yall are serious and you know what you are getting yourself into though.
Good luck and be careful.
Oh...kissing tips...just go with the flow, you will get better as time goes on.

Answer 6

if he starts unzipping his pants or feeling you and you don't feel comfortable, but you don't want him to feel too rejected, then just continue kissing, but just take his hand away from wherever it was that you didn't like. lol.. if your parents find out, then you are a bit screwed.. my sister walked in on me and my girlfriend making out about a month ago, and it's never been the same.. every time my girlfriend leaves my house it's "did you kiss? you all set for the next week?" etc.. so it's best your parents don't find out just keep your ears open, and don't moan too much. have fun!

Answer 7

Focus on your future such as trying to achieve something in life. There is plenty of time to pursue relationships in the future. I don't think you should have sex but if it must come to that then I would suggest that you guys talk about using a condom to reduce the spread of STD. Do not have an intimate activities without the use of a condom.

Answer 8

When you are kissing Troy, keep your pants on. You can not get pregnant if your pants does not come off. Your parents should be fine with just kissing. Ask them. They probably will tell you kissing is okay. Keep your pants on!!

Answer 9

Dont get yourself in a serious relationship. Focus on your education go to college get a degree then get a job. The relationship will follow. Make sure you dont have sex until you are married that is what God want.

Answer 10

Whoa! Rein those hormones in girl, you should be doing homework instead of asking us about kissing tips. Keep your mouth and legs closed and your clothes on. That is the best advice i can give you.