sleeping with a teacher?

Question

i am 17 and i keep havin these dreams about one of my teachers. he is smart, funny, and cute. i really want to sleep with him. he always flirts with me. do you think i should go 4 it?

ok. i hav thought about sleeping with him. but what i really meant is that i wanted to be closer

so today i asked him to explain my assignment. so i stayed after class. i just strait out told him what i was feeling and he feels the same. we agreed to wait til i was 18 and if we still had feelings we would talk then

Answer 1

NO.
If you really like the teacher, you wouldn't want to hurt him or his career would you?

Wait a couple of years....when you are no longer a student(college) and if you still feel this way.....well you are of legal age and no one will get hurt.

best wishes

Answer 2

Ok, everyone else keeps tripping out, but I've been through the same thing hun. My History teacher was so hot, and considerably young. He was like this whiz kid and was teaching at age 23, while I was 16 attending his class (I got him his first year) He would smile brightly at me and call on me a little more consistently than other teachers (If I raise my hand, I know 100% that I'm right and half the time I won't even raise my hand because I set the curve for other students and I wanted to give them a chance to answer and not look like a smart-*ss) while other teachers would call one or two other students first. Sometimes, he would tell me to stand up and tell the class the answer when I wouldn't raise my hand. He would keep me after class and talk to me about an interesting paper I had handed in or how he wished other students were as interested in learning as I was. I would fantasize about him too. But after a while, it wore off. Good thing too, cause I was talking to this chick while shopping for a book he had mentioned wanting to read (I knew his b-day was coming up and I do nice things like that for all my teachers) and it turns out she dated him in college and he was a total jerk.

My suggestion sweetheart, wait it out. And I mean until you are 18 and no longer attending the school he teaches at. That way, you'll be able to tell if this is a passing infatuation or not, and neither of you will get into trouble.

Answer 3

Ur 17. First of all I am so sick of tv putting the idea that having sex with a man who you do not know is cool. Please have more respect for ursef than that. U should be at least be worth a movie and dinner before a guy gets some some ***. All a man has to be is cute and flirt with you to get between your legs.

Please babygirl I'm only being so blunt becaue that is what I was taught by my father, men don't respect females who gives it up easily, they call them whores. That's the chase they love, chasing for the sex.

I'm telling you before you have sex with someone go on a date first with him, so often by the end of the date I thougt they were the biggest jerks in the world and not worth my time let alone a lay.

Please babygirl you have whoresh tendency's and we all know what happens to them, they end up on Maury with men who deny they're babies because they know they have sex with men whih no problem, and even if they are the father they still don't care for the children, or you could become inected with HIV or some STD. Condoms don't protect u from all STD's and do you know anything about this mans sexual habits, telling you he is only seeing u and having women on him answering machine are two diffrent things.

Stop with the whore thoughts
Keep you legs closed, if the sexual tention is to bad buy a dildo
Stay in school, gratuate, gain some wisdom and if you still want to be a whore go for it!

Answer 4

Maybe he really isn't flirting with you, and you just misinterpret. And even if he is---then so what. Just stay out of his life, and play with kids your own age. Do you really want to be the accomplice to ruining someones life and career? Or does being horny mean that much to you???


btw, what did you expect for people to SAY to you? You have to be joking, because I can't imagine someone your age not realizing this is a crime, or is he you special ed. teacher??

Answer 5

Prolly not a good idea, I don't know where you live, but maybe you should find some hot firefighter or something. Or wait 6 months (make sure you're good & 18) and then jump in head first!

Answer 6

Well your teacher would lose his teaching license and be arrested for child molesting so no you should not go for it unless you want to ruin his life and how the heck do you even know this guy feels the same?

Answer 7

Not a good idea. Can mess up your reputation at school and he can lose his job.He can also risk jail time because of sleeping with an underage child. Don't risk it. Its hard enough being a teenager and having to deal with other issues. Concentrate on school and be with someone that is a student as well. Makes life a bit easier for you. :-)

Answer 8

i highly do not recommend you sleeping with him, since as you probably already know, you both will get in extreme trouble.
because of the laws against teacher-student sexual relations, and the fact that you are a minor.
And are you even sure this teacher is worth both of your having your reputations/lives ruined?
It may feel like you really want to, but it may just be only an infatuation.

Answer 9

No. Would you want your parents to know you did? Things like this get found out in the end. Find someone your age, get married then do what you want with him.

Answer 10

look if u do he will get in a lot of trouble like others have said so flirt and maaybe BIG MAYBE kiss or something but no farther than that unless u want to ruin his life and ur reputation.