I hae a boyfriend, he is sweet, but I live in IL, he lives in NY. We write eachother, visit each other during summer, but I don't know if we should give up a long distance relationship, weve been going out for a few years, help!
2007-01-13 11:23:22 · 20 answers · asked by iLikeTrains 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, just the fact that you're asking complete strangers makes me believe that you want out! Its really all up to you (obviously). If he's a good guy, why let him go? Its so hard to find such a good/descent guy these days! I started talking to my now husband while he was deployed in Iraq. Its been about 3 years now, and well, due to the military we have to do the long distance thing. Right now he's in Afghanistan..waiting to come back home (yay!) but I wouldn't change anything for the world! I love him and know that I am the luckiest woman to have him! If you're not in love with him, then maybe it would be the best thing to do (let him go). Dont want to have him thinking that everything is ok, if you're not happy.
Good luck hun!
2007-01-13 11:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide for yourself based on how you feel about this guy and if you think this long distance relationship will eventually be a real one, because at one point or another, it has to get to the next level. If in the near future, you can decide which time-frame suits you best, you or your boyfriend move closer to one another so you can be with each other on a more regular and frequent level, than it's worth it, Otherwise he is just a pen pal with benefits.
2007-01-13 19:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have the feelings and the only thing that is wrong is the distance thing keep with him cause sooner or later if this realtionship is still good you two can move closer.
2007-01-13 19:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by gurl/without/a/cause/or/mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact ur even asking is pretty clear to me...leemie guess it doesnt feel like a boyfriend girlfriend thing because of the distance, u wanna be closer to him but feel so far apart from himt hats its not possible, uve had a good run but all good things muct come to an end good luck x x x
2007-01-13 19:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It comes down to if you think the relationship is worth it to keep continuing. Some relationships occur just out of convienance or nothing better to do...
2007-01-13 19:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by tastykumquat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should it isn't fair to either one of you. You both are growing as people but apart it NEVER works, part as friends in case you too hook up again down the road its a small world and your paths just may cross again.
2007-01-13 19:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by tj.bray_stephens 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have lasted a long time already. meybe u should stick it out. if u love him why not. unless there's a reason that u want to break up. otherwise it's been working for u guys for this long, i say good on ya!!
2007-01-13 19:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are not happy with it and you are still with him just because you don;t want to hurt his feeling and you don't want to through all those years to the trash, then you are waisting your time.
do what you think is best if you love him stay with him and see what you can do to move closer to him, but if you want to meet other and you don;t want to be with him brake up, explain it to him I"m sure he'll understand.
GOOD LUCK !
2007-01-13 19:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by lisvad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel as dedicated as you were the first weeks you were going out.
2007-01-13 19:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by 'chip! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you feel like you should? me and my bf are a few hours apart and we both finally decided that it was way too hard and are moving in together this summer... maybe y'all should too.
2007-01-13 19:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Hamy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋