to think that guys need to respect me and i dont want to date anyone at my school because they all do the same things on the weekend...get drunk and try to get laid??? im not into taht and i dont think it is okay! should i stay strong? i have kinda high standards but i believe taht they are important ones. i get introuble for it, like guys ask me why i wont date them and when i tell them they get mad! is that because they dont want to live up to my standards they just want me to lower them becasue they dont want to be a better person? i dont know what to do!
2007-01-13 11:20:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not looking for perfect, just respect
2007-01-13 11:48:58 · update #1
Listen babe it's all good if your shy not ready its all good, some guys want a'lot of Pie and often some dont.........find a Boy that will wait on you till your ready
2007-01-13 11:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with having high standards. Just be careful that you're not being a snob and missing out on life with kids your own age (i'm guessing you're in highschool) because of it. You can likely still have fun with them withouth compromising your standards. Guys also tend to have that sort of mentality when they're with their friends (even after high school). So maybe there's a particular one that you like and could get to know better on a one on one basis.
2007-01-13 11:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately dont lower your standards for a guy. if they truly like you and want to be with you then they will live up to yours. you should definately stay strong...there are way more important things in life then getting drunk and laid...you'll find a guy that is everything you've ever wanted and then you'll be glad you stuck with your standards.
2007-01-13 11:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....... I'd always say wait for respect.
I'm guessing you have a few years to make up your mind as you are still at school,so don't worry about it, and stick with what makes you feel good about yourself in the morning. You may feel a little lonely at times....but not as bad as you might if you are with the wrong person.
Just don't let yourself build up such an idea of the perfect boyfriend that no-one will ever measure up to this image.
Trust me, you will meet a nice guy....he won't be perfect - ..but he will be right for you.
2007-01-13 11:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maintain the high standards. Let them respect you for it. I am very selective too.
2007-01-13 11:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Eva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you shouldn't do anything that you don't want to do. everyone is entitled to their own believes and morals. You shouldn't do things just to please other people especially if it means compromising yourself. If the guys are getting mad at you it's just because they are trying to get "laid". Stay strong and good luck.
2007-01-13 11:36:53 · answer #6 · answered by momathome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r on the right track,keep urself their,If there is someone who really likes u he will respect ur standards and accept them,don't lose them for some jerk
2007-01-13 11:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by She 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY STRONG GIRL!!!! B/c when you get outta high school hell, men,(not them little boys you're dealing w/ now), will respect you for it. They will love you for your whole package; brains, beauty, and strength. GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!!
2007-01-13 11:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your hi standards and your self respect. don't ever go down to Thais you are better off
2007-01-13 11:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u are the type of person u can b friends witha boy then consider to go out wit them. i think there will b a person for u who have the same stadards. so DONT LOSE FAITH!!!!!
2007-01-13 11:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Random Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋