Okay. I just recently broke up with my bf. but i also just found out that one of my friends likes me. what do i do? i dont want to seem like im over him already cause im not. but my friend has liked me since i started dating my ex...sory if this is confusing, but i need help. giv me some opinons on what i should do plz
2007-01-13 11:18:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong with being with your friend. If you like him go for it.
I dated other women at the same time i was getting over a divorce, it's hard to just forget the ex's but you gotta move on.
One suggestion is this, don't talk about your ex boyfriend while you are seeing any other guy, they don't like hearing about ex boy friends.
2007-01-13 11:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you definitely need to be single for awhile. Take a breather, see what happens w/ your friend. Not as a couple but as a potential couple. Otherwise, he would end up being a rebound, and then you would not only lose a new boyfriend, but an old friend as well.
2007-01-13 11:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not saying your going to sleep with this guy. Why not hang out with him if you like him. You never know he might be the right guy for you. If nothing else it will help occupy some of your time and hopefully take your mind off the feeling of your breakup.
2007-01-13 11:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are not over your ex then don't go out with anyone else, u would be just using them, and that is not fair. Stay single until u are ready to mingle. Good luck.
2007-01-13 11:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by Shery W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say dont start anything you arent ready for...if you know your not over your ex...then you definately do not want to hurt your friend...if you are at all interested in him then take it slow and make sure your ready if you decide to be in a relationship with him. dont jump into anything that would ruin your friendship or hurt either of you.
2007-01-13 11:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay... your friend is still a friend right? so he wouldnt mind if you told him that you were sorry but you just got over a relationship and you aren't ready for a new one. when you are ready, you'll let him know and give him a chance then.... it wasnt reall yconfusing and the first person who answered got it wrong...
2007-01-13 11:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by macey_brasil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with your friend as FRIENDS!! you may end up getting together later. but make sure he knows it is just FRIENDS for now. you need a sholder to cry on. he will either show you how comforting he can be or he will be a loser. and you will know if it is a good thing or not.
2007-01-13 11:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mandi, Once you do finally get older. You'll start to quit wanting others approval. Why not start today. It's your life. It's your Heart. It's your time in the sun. Enjoy it. Congrats!
2007-01-13 11:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lifes short just go for it but explain to the friend that yr not over your ex and you would appreciate support, follow your heart
2007-01-13 11:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by KerzaSmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thikn that its trouble to date a friend because the chances of going back to the way things were just usually doesnt happen
2007-01-13 11:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋