We've been dating 2 months this monday and i really do love him. i just don't want him to reject it or not say anything at all. I believe he loves me but I don't want to say it too early.
And we just spent 2 hours in eachothers arms today watching a movie and I wanted to say it but idk why, but i just couldn't. he's coming over tonight for an hour or so. should i say it then?
please help!
2007-01-13 10:37:58 · 14 answers · asked by <3 3 in Food & Drink ➔ Non-Alcoholic Drinks
why the hell is this in the nonalcoholic drinks section? that'd prolly why i'm not getting a lot of answers :(
2007-01-13 10:47:17 · update #1
You should say it when ever you want, just as long as you really mean it. He may be having the same issues as you. But you have to prepare yourself for him not being ready to tell you that he loves you back. That doesn't mean that you can't still have a relationship, it just means he needs more time, but it is never too early to say those three little words as long as you mean them. There is no time limit to falling in love. People get married after knowing each other for 2 weeks!!! You should follow your heart, it will never lead you in the wrong direction. Just tell him how you feel, honesty is the best policy. Good luck and let us know how it went.
2007-01-13 10:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by roxie2k3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you don;t have to make a date when to say I love you to one you care about deeply. The question is that your overanxious and expect too much right now from the power of the word.
Sex for instance is nothing special. A feeling a relief and thats it over powered by lustfull attraction and poise.
Love on the other hand is something that grows and it takes years to understand how powerful it is when you say "I Love You " and mean it. It is so powerful that once you are put to the test of your love for that person...what would you do when confronted about knwoing that the one you love dearly has fooled around on you?
Talk about the test of times...I've been there and done it and I'm here to tell you when I say I love you to my wife she knows I mean it.
2007-01-13 12:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should say it. I mean, you guys have been dating for 2 months now, and spend 2 hours in each others arms watching a movie. I think that he will not mind that you say it, but he'll be happy. Chances are that if you say it to him tonight, then he'll say it right back!!
2007-01-13 10:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by .:Feliciano:. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't..quickest way to chace a man away is to get too serious too fast. 2 months is not a long time. In his eyes..that means lets go pick out china patterns. I'm sure he feels the same way, just give it a little while longer.
2007-01-13 10:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kristi B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, because if he dies tomorrow, he will have never known how you felt and you will regret not having told him. Go for it. What's the worst that could happen?
Question: Are you IN love with him too? Tell him if you are.
2007-01-13 11:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to make a big deal about it when you say it so if he oesn't say it back it won't be as bad if you were to make a big deal about, you should say it though, you have to let your true feeling out and if he loves you it will make it easier for him to say it back
good luck in the future
2007-01-13 10:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by TTC #1 With PCOS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you truly do love him before you say it. Don't just say it because you feel like you "have"to.
2007-01-13 14:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by Marenight 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush into it
wait until he says it first
sometimes guys get overwhelmed when u say it to early
2007-01-14 13:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if you have to say something let it be "I think you're great", or "you're fun to be with". If you want to keep him around, don't scare him off
2007-01-13 10:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by wellaem 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's really nice question
and my answer is ;
when ever you want just say it
when you feel it
2007-01-13 15:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by marinad m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋