We've been dating for two months and i'm bored!! He's totally into me and sweet. I feel really bad! How do I break up with him?
2007-01-13 10:25:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't lead this guy on if you know he isn't the one for you. Tell him as soon as it's practicable that you don't think your personalities suit each other. You're probably bored because he's either too slow/timid for you or you both really don't have much in common so you would have lack of activities you can both enjoy together: which are both personality differences and that's a valid reason. It's good that you've figured this out after 2 months and haven't waited for a year or something before you decided that he's not for you: you're hurt him less the sooner you break the news to him. Don't do it over email. At least do it over the phone so he has an avenue to respond and you can reassure him that you still think he's sweet etc. but just not for you and give him reassurance that it wasn't a lack anything he did: just wasn't meant to be.
2007-01-13 11:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by kf2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it soon and be honest, he will appreciate it later rather and he would want that more than leading him on and making him believe it's o.k.
2007-01-13 18:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by california girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you bored? =( That's sad....It makes me wonder if everyone is like that these days...
2007-01-13 18:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by brendi ^_^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋