Sometimes I feel bad about it but then I think of some of my friends who have never had a boyfriend and they are my age. Sometimes I think that I will never get a boyfriend in High School because nobody likes me now and all the boys that go to my school now are either mean or freaky.
2007-01-13 10:24:00 · 34 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, don't feel bad at all. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 16 and I didn't have a serious boyfriend until I was 19.
2007-01-13 10:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's okay. 14 isn't a bad age at all. Besides, if all the guys are mean or freaky, like you say, then don't get a boyfriend at all. It's better to have a nice boyfriend even if you have to wait a little, than having a mean boyfriend by rushing into things. Really, there's like nothing wrong to not have a boyfriend. =D
2007-01-13 10:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by brendi ^_^ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i had my first real girlfriend when i was 17. and actually a more serious relationship when i was 21. It really does not matter. I understand you feel insecure, it belongs to being 14. Just enjoy the attention you get, and you'll get more. walk with a straight back, and enjoy the feeling of the sun shining on your skin. enjoy little things. you'll look good.
all the boys are not interesting, because they are mean and freaky? a lot are, especially towards girls their age, they are just as insecure as you are. Keep that in mind, look what is behind. Enjoy relaxed chats with nice guys, explain them how you want to be treated as soon as you find them mean. Maybe talk to them when none of their friends are around, makes a difference.
Just enjoy good things of life, small things, and the rest will follow.
Goodluck,
Dr. Aram
2007-01-13 10:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Aram, from Holland with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have a BF-my oldest god daughter didnt have a BF until she was 17.
Her twin sister was more like me and many male friends but never a BF and she still hasnt had a real BF at 19.
You dont have to have a BF from your school though-if you volunteer or go to church and participate in other things you could meet a great knucklehead but at 14 i wouldnt worry about it. Just keep being you!
I know this may not be what you wants to hear but i hope it helps!
2007-01-13 10:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by msijg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't feel bad because you didn't have a boy friend at age 14. Learn to like yourself and friends will come your way. As far as the boyfriend thing goes, take your time and don't be in a great big rush.
2007-01-13 10:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all the boys at your school are either mean or freaky, then really what are you missing out on? lol
some people will say OMG GET A BOYFRIEND. but really it isnt that great. *cuase at least in my school all the guys are just trying to see how far they can get before you hit them or bite them and plus they havent got the kissing thing down yet* trust me! lol
so look at it this way.
your giving the guys time to get better with all the details.
2007-01-13 10:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by karen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing worse than a freaky boy. What you need at this tender age is a ...freaky man. Get in touch !
2007-01-13 10:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by billpattiemo7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, your to young to even worry about boys. Don't let anyone tell you any different. At your age probally the most that could happen is you would get taken advantage of by some older boy.
2007-01-13 10:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14!
I didn't go on my first date until I was almost 18. I still haven't been kissed, and I'm 21. These were my choices, though.
No one NEEDS a boyfriend! Your time will come. Be patient.
2007-01-13 10:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't feel bad. you don't really need to have a boyfriend until your older. sometimes it seems nice to have one but you shouldn't be pushed into going out with a boy that you have no interest in. don't worry about the boyfriend thing.
2007-01-13 10:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋