I don't know what I should do next. We're both musicians but I made fun of him (by telling drummer jokes!) for being a drummer. Problem is that now I've realised I really like him and I don't know whether to tell him or keep it quiet.
I really like him and now I'm just confused! What should I do?
2007-01-13 10:22:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who hasn't acted like that aorund someone that they like?? He most likely wasn't hurt by those jokes (they're just jokes after all) and he'll forget if you start becoming nice to him. Just be your friendly self and if you want, you can even apologize for the jokes. But I don't think it's necessary. He'll be able to notice you like him. =D
2007-01-13 10:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by brendi ^_^ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One piece of advice more people should follow in life is this: "Only regret the things you DON'T do". In other words, say to him "I feel bad about the jokes I said the other day. Can I make it up to you by taking you out one night next week & buy you a drink"? Chances are, he'll say yes & then when your out you can confess to liking him & then arrange a proper date then! Good luck!!!
2007-01-13 10:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what have you got to lose by telling this guy how you feel? so what if u made jokes thats called having a personality. just go for it or you will regret not doing anything at all
2007-01-19 03:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by caffiw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you like him, what you going to lose, you put him in bad positions when you make i joke about him, so he like you that ££££££££, or $$$$$ gave it a try and good luck
2007-01-19 03:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by badboyisawickedman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if he hasn't got anyone yet then you can ask if you want to go out for a drink some time and work your way up from there. everyone want someone who is fun around them so i think you started off on a good note.
2007-01-19 07:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by cutiesweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just gauge if he has someone himself and if no ask him out for a non committal drink and then you can find out if he likes you as much as you like him. Believe me to find out a girls likes you is flattering! Give it a try. Good luck!
2007-01-21 08:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the big deal? having the bass-player saying "oh God, you are with a drummer?". Bit silly, innit.
2007-01-21 02:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by pollasgordas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. It is the best thing. You could apologise for making fun of him.Then at least it is up to him
2007-01-18 00:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by traceylill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him & Good Luck
2007-01-19 03:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tactfully ask him if he fancies going for a drink or meal or to watch a film and go from there. if you like him its worth the risk asking.
2007-01-13 10:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋