2007-01-13 10:22:20 · 10 answers · asked by lemi121 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, almost instantly. Most people can.
If you have low self esteem, try to get over it. Read some self help books, available in the Library.
Talk to yourself, and see if you can't find out why, you have these feelings.
It's obvious that when you were growing up, you didn't get the encouragement that you needed.
You are you, and there is no one on Earth, just like you. You have lots to offer anyone, and well worth the effort.
Think positive thoughts, find out your good points, and if you have any bad points, like low self esteem, work to get rid of them.
This can be overcome, if you work on it, so good luck. Remember all you need is the confidence in yourself to do it.
2007-01-13 10:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on his social skills and how you behave around him. I think I could tell, but don't assume that many guys will be able to tell. And remember, almost everyone sees something wrong with themselves. Be as gentle with the egos of others as you can. I'm curious to know why you ask though.
Oh yeah . . . don't let anyone take advantage of you because of self-esteem or whatever. I almost forgot to mention. Protecting the egos of others does not mean giving it up to them in a relationship too soon (like before marriage, or at least a couple of years for the sake of marginal decency). Good night!
2007-01-13 18:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem will show in your body lanuage as well as your behaviour. Some people are not open to read others body lanuage. Like nail biters...People how can not look at others will talking too...Head and eyes looking to the ground...crossing ones arms and, or legs. Are just a few signs from your body that tells others.
2007-01-13 18:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly. I think it's pretty obvious when a guy can tell though because his actions will be different. He might start to pull away, etc. From personal experience I think you can fool a guy into thinking you're more confident. (I mean girls make guys think they're something they're not all the time, right?) If you consciously try to always appear more confident when you speak to him or are around him you may be able to fool him. You can probably pick out the confident girls you know by the way they act so it makes sense that you could act like them and appear to be confident to others.
2007-01-13 18:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It shows in the way you carry yourself and in the way you converse with others. First tell-tell sign that you have confidence problems is the way you dress and when you speak negatively.
2007-01-13 18:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, mine can. I can tell when he is feeling inssecure or self consous. It shows when you are confident and feeling bad, they like confident.
2007-01-13 18:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES they can and from my experience, it's a serious turn off. So overcome it or hide it well.
2007-01-13 18:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by bsbfrk411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That tends to be fairly obvious to anyone who knows you.
2007-01-13 18:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy, stay away from people, aren't "bright and breezy", down in the dumps, comfort eat...
Sure we can tell.. :D
2007-01-13 18:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yees they can!!! and if they are not descent as a person they'll take advantage of you
2007-01-13 18:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by LOVELY S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋