ok so you guys told me to tell eric that i like him...so i did and he told me that he already knew that i liked him and that he did not have the same feelings for me!! and if that is not bad enough i had to take my horse to the hospitle last night and ended up having to put her down. my life keeps going downhill!!! what should i do????
2007-01-13 10:17:55 · 39 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we all have days like the one you are having. im sorry that you had to have your horse put down but if the vet felt it was best to do then it was for a good reason and you did the right thing.
as far as eric goes, just move on there are plenty of fish in the ocean who will appreciate you for you and one day you will find that special person.
remember, when one door closes another one opens. tomorrow im sure will be better for you.
2007-01-13 10:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your horse. As far as Eric, there are other fish in the sea. Don't give up on life already because one guy didn't feel the same way about you. You have to keep your chin up...trust me I know what having a million bad times to one good time is. If you let it get you down, you will always be a lonely person because people don't want to be around someone that is always down. They want to be around someone that can find something good out of any situation.
The Eric thing, you will probably find someone that is a lot better looking and will treat you a lot better and most importantly will like you for you.
The horse thing, well....your horse isn't suffering anymore. You would not have wanted her to live in misery. I looked at it that way when my Dad , my brother, my aunt...and animals that were like family died....so it can apply to your horse.
Just keep your chin up and think about now...not the past and only part of the future...you always want to keep your options open.
2007-01-13 10:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by DONNA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About the Eric thing: I know it hurts to find out that someone you have a crush on doesn't feel the same about you in return. If there is any consolation, look at it this way. You didn't have him then and you don't have him now. If you think about it, what really changed? At least you now know for sure and don't spend your life wondering what could or couldn't be.
It is best that you move on and work on other potential guys in the sea.
As for the horse: I am sorry to hear that a beloved member of the family is going away. Just remember all the good memories the horse brought you and cherish them.
2007-01-13 10:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've said it before and I'll say it again. How bad is it really???Not sound like a jerk but How many people out there never get the chance to get turned down by someone??? How many out there never seen a horse let alone rode one or owened one???I am sorry your horse had to be put down and am sorry he doesn't feel the same for you. But life can be taxing at times and when that happens and we focus all on us we cause ourselves more pain than anything or anyone ever can. U need to focus more on what u do have than what u don't. So cheer up sweaty it could be worse.
2007-01-13 10:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by Vinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, i'm sorry, sweetheart. chin up! i didn't answer the question about telling eric that you like him, but i feel bad anyways. advice: a step-by-step plan.
1) know that either of these things could not have been avoided. i mean, isn't it better that you know that he doesn't like you now than wasting your time on him blindly? and of course, you couldn't know about your horse. i had the same thing happen to me (the guy, not the horse). best thing to do is to channel it into something else- i love the arts, so i paint or sing it away. do you like running? or making jewellery? do that to take your mind off it.
2) tell your friends and family how you feel. they always pull through at times like this, you'll be blown away by all their kindness and how much they love you.
3) get lots of sleep and eat right. being sick at a time like this will not help.
4)look for other guys! there are so many fish in the sea, baby. there's got to be one way cuter than eric!
hope this helps. you never know when someone will fall in love with your smile, so stay happy!
2007-01-13 10:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess try and forget about Eric, if he knew you liked him and still didn't say anything to you only to let you find out the hard way, then he's obviously not worth it. You will find someone who will have the same feelings for you, trust me. Your life can only go down so far then it will start coming up again, maybe think of getting another horse or something to remind you of her, that may make you feel better.
2007-01-13 10:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay hun first off take a very veryvery deep breath and try to relax. Its not the end of the world and even if it feels as though it is there are ways to get things back to normal again. Im sorry about your horse, people share very strong connections with animals, I really feel that way about my dog. But things will be alright again. There are other fish in the sea remember that I know that that line sucks azz but it can be useful. I wish you all the luck and as a bit of help to relieve yourself of pain on the inside go take a run/jog/walk one morning the cool air is refreashing and its helpful good luck and much love to you
2007-01-13 10:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you found out that Eric really doesn't like you the way you like him. You're not alone in the world in that. It has happened countless times to countless people. You'll find someone else in the future. Find something to keep yourself busy and your mind off him. People have lost spouses/lovers to death and have moved on and even fallen in love again.
You had to put your horse to sleep. That's so sad, really. Losing an animal can be like losing a family member. Just keep the memories of the times you two spent together strong!
2007-01-13 10:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That totally stinks! I'm so sorry! But don't go wallowing in self-pity. Keep going on with your life, try being friends with Eric. And be yourself. Have a good friend over and talk about what you're going through.Or if you have an older sister or something like that I think that'd help.
Hope the sun shines on you again soon!
2007-01-13 16:20:49 · answer #9 · answered by Pony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me honey, you sound young...you're going to have lots of worst things to happen to you. Don't let the guy you like telling you the feelings aren't mutual be one of those things that breaks your confidence. He doesn't have feelings for you? He has that right. Just like you the right to control whatever comes out of your mouth.The next time you have feelings for a guy, let him come to you. Because if he really cares about you he will and if he doesn't than he is not the guy for you. I'm sorry about your horse, I don't have any pets but when I did each loss was personal and I never fully got over it so I just decide not to have any. You'll have lots more pets sweetie. Keep your head up and always have faith and remember things could always have been worse. God bless babe!
2007-01-13 10:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋