i met a guy and fell truly madly in love. i was addicted to him and him him to me For 4yrs..He moved in with me we did everything together. He had two boys and they adored me and my kids adored him and we all lived as a happy family..Then whenever i didnt say something right or against his opinion he would call it an argument.So every couple of months he would leave me then return say how sorry he was ask me to marry him go on fabulous holidays and all would be fine. Then we would have a difference and he would go again come back cry beg for forgiveness propose and then leave.This went on for 4 years till he never came back.He never contacted me again but still remained in contact with my kids......Anyway 2 months later he met someone, i was gutted. He left her after 2 months then moved in with her and her kids then moved out and left her,went back, asked her to move in with him then kicked her and her kids out and made them homeless then took her to vegas.What kind of guy is this?????
2007-01-13 10:15:19 · 16 answers · asked by itsallgood 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know i was with a nutter but i am a very wise and independent woman..now he is doing the same to someone else cant understand why oh why i was with him and forgave him all the time..DID HE STRIP ME OF MY SELF ESTEEM OR WAS MY SELF ESTTEM SO HIGH THAT BECAUSE I ALWAYS STOOD UO FOR MYSELF THAT THATS WHY HE MOVED ON..so confused about myself.
2007-01-13 10:28:04 · update #1
he has the problem and not you ..he has just proved it by doing it to another woman..he is a control freak bully..scumbag ratbag..you should be so thankful you are not still with him.
2007-01-13 11:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy has a controlling personality. Everything is fine at the beginning. You are both happy together. Then something changes & you have little disagreements. This guy starts to think your being disrespectful as you aren't acting compliant. So he controls more & more til things come to a head. He is a manipulator & is always searching for perfection in someone even tho he is far from perfect himself. Deep down tho he never showed it, he is very insecure hence the need to be in control. I've known men like this in the past. Domineering & controlling....
2007-01-13 10:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You done this because you loved him and wanted it to work I am sorry to say there are serial nutters out there just think of yourself as one of the lucky ones you are strong break all contact other wise you might look like and easy target to come back too
2007-01-14 06:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by mt1uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a COMMITMENT problem. How old is he? He is obviously old enough to have grown up by now. He is immature, scared and has major problems..maybe because of his past? who knows what it is thats causing the problem? These are also signs that he may be a potential cheater. He might also have mental issues..he might be bi-polar? I think he should seek psychiatric help or go through therapy to win this problem thats causing him to lose the people he might love.
He seems to be insecure, manupilative and controling. I suggest you stay away from him as he can cause you many problems. He might be overly jealous, overly protactive and overly controling.
2007-01-13 10:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mara D 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry you had to go through this. He dosen't seem to know what he wants and hes messing with his childrens heads. It's a shame it didn't work out for you but remeber you are now free to find a man that dosen't keep changing his mind. You are worth so much more.
2007-01-13 10:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he grew up learning that running off is a good way to deal with bad situations. He has a pattern alright... I hope you are teaching your kids not to be like dad.... not to be a "flee and crawl-back" kind of guy.,
2007-01-13 10:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A complete nutter.
2007-01-13 10:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is a control freak. The kind of guy you want to stay away from. He also sounds a little sick if you ask me.
2007-01-13 10:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by DONNA M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's afraid of commitment, and obviously needs some tiem to discover himself
2007-01-13 10:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by Carolinii 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is very unstable. You would be a fool to take him back into your life. He's a loser.
2007-01-13 10:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋