this guy that i really like at my school told me that he liked me (on halloween). now yesterday i asked him if he really ment it and he siad "no i never liked you i just said that to get people to stop asking me." But now he makes sure i can't hate him and doesn't stop touching me. so what should i do? i can't get my mind off of him and he is like one of my best friends right now. he is always there when i need him and shares his deepest thoughts with me reather than anyone else. and if i need something he finds away to get it for me. like my ride after school fell through one time and he conned his parents into giving me a ride even though the car was for two and there were three of us. (talk about close and personal) and his parents even like me better than all of his other friends. they were also like quizing me on what my parents did and what i plan to do.
2007-01-13 10:09:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if I were you, i wouldn't stick things out. I mean, what you should do is kinda move on; because he's just not sure what he wants. And you don't want to look desperate. I would snag another great guy to kinda make him jealous...because a lot of guys like it better when they want something that belongs to some one else....lol, just do it and see, he'll come knockin.
2007-01-13 10:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Stefi13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Girl (",)
Firstly, did he say this to you - on halloween - in front of other people .eg: friends? Then he was trying to be 'cool'. Hopefully if he grows out of that stage, then give him a chance- which could only be in a few years, if he is being all touchy, try not to let it give you the impression that he could like you more than the 'touch' part... meaning he could only be being nice to you to get somewhere and then leave you. If he is your best friend, keep it as such and try not to give in to anything further, until you have no doubts that he is being true to you and does like you in every way. So please just watch yourself.
Cheers sweetie.
2007-01-13 18:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a very good start. being close friends can and may become closer friends..he seems to really care about you.
2007-01-13 18:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
giv it a chance wit him. see if u really did mean it or not. dig deep into his head and find out exactly how he feels.
2007-01-13 18:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by KoJay L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋