my friend cheated on his gf more than once . and he said that he told her everything . but he said he sill wants to cheat . why ? or did he really not even tell her. untill someone gets pregnant by him what is your advice ? shoul i keep my mounth shut?
2007-01-13 10:00:42 · 9 answers · asked by jenn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep your mouth shut, it's none of your business. He is telling you these things out of confidence that you won't say anything. If I were you I'd tell him how wrong he is. Tell him that he is the scum of the earth. Then, after that....just let him feel bad for a while, and talk to him. Tell him what you are concerned about when he does these things to people he is really supposed to care about.
2007-01-13 10:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by Stefi13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if she is your friend too. If she is...then yes tell her. He doesn't want a committed relationship but wants to be able to claim the girl. There is a big possibility that he didn't tell her. You do know that if you tell her that you will probably lose your friendship with him though, don't you. You have to ask yourself if doing the right thing is worth losing a friend. You can always let him know you don't like being put in the situation you are in and what he is doing is totally wrong in your opinion. This is a tough one. It all comes down to what your gut is telling you to do.
2007-01-13 18:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by DONNA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As his friend you are obligated to tell him the truth. I guess this is one friend that you won't be falling for.lol. Tell him how you feel out of love, if you don't and it comes out later when someone does eventually get pregnant by him or he gets some STD than he'll blame you. So tell him the truth while you still can before he gets too far along. Good luck sweetie.
2007-01-13 18:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how good a friend you are with his girlfriend. If you guys are very close, then yes you should warn her. If not then I'd suggest staying out of it at the risk of ruining your friendship wiht him. As to why he cheats, personally I think it's a genetic defect. My sister (who is probably defective) thinks it's because he's not ready for a commitment and he probably finds it exciting to cheat. I personally think it's the worst thing you can do to your partner.
2007-01-13 18:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend must not really give a rats a$$ about his girlfriend then. But on the other hand she's not very bright herself for staying with him after he told her that he cheated on her more times than once. Yes I would say something to him if I were you.
2007-01-13 18:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by guitardan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes keep your mounth shut.
2007-01-13 18:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't keep your mouth shut! tell his gf! she will be hurt at first but not as hurt as she will be when she knew that you knew all along!
2007-01-13 18:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by handbag_addict_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
or he gets aids or spreads it abuot put some aids leaflets around his place. hes a fool
2007-01-13 18:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by denise g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guy just a****** bc they just know how to stay with one girl they have go to other girls
2007-01-13 18:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋