How long you should you wait before sleeping with a man?

Answer 1

Hmmm...Good Question...I think you should sleep with a man only if you both have a made a committment to only being with each other exclusively...because that friends with benefits s**#...does not work...someone always gets hurt in the long run...take it from me..:)

Answer 2

There's no right answer to that.
It what feels right to you.
No guys really think they'll get lucky on their first date, so unless you have an uncontrolable desire for the guy, he won't die if you do say that you're not ready.
But I would advise to find out first what's important to you, like, if he's married, or have children. What type of relationship he's after, and how he feels about you.
You don't ask, you won't be told, and that might just be an excuse to say that you already knew.xx
Having said that, really time is not really an issue. You could wait for ages and still be dumped. There's no certitude.
Obviously, for some guys sleeping with them too fast could be a sign that you're a loose woman and they might just use you.
For others, the fact that you resist, makes you more interesting and a person worth knowing.
For others, you play difficult to get and it makes the chase fun and dumping you funnier.
So, follow your heart, you'll enjoy it better and have less regrets should it fail.xxx

Answer 3

Six and a half years ago I dropped into a bar close to home for a nightcap after a meal out with a close male friend. I was happily single and not looking, but got chatting to a girl at the bar. Within 15 minutes we had agreed that we were going back to her place and were going to sleep together. That might make me and her sound really cheap, but she is currently sat next to me, we have been very happily married for several years and have three gorgeous children!! Therefore the short answer to this question is that there is no simple answer to this question other than this - when it feels right. Does that help?

Answer 4

6 months 4 months 3 dates

Answer 5

A long time unless you're keen to get a 'dose' or, more probably, get known as a 'slapper'!!. Get to know what type of person he is and make your decision then. I'm male and my 'slapper' got me upstairs after just three hours. We've been together for three years and I've just discovered..(although I think I knew anyway) that she's very 'popular' with her male staff at work. I've just found texts on her mobile that confirms that she really is just a middle aged 'slapper'!!. In other words... if you want to be known as a 'slapper' , confirm it as soon as.!!.
(UK)

Answer 6

For some, sex without waiting is fine, others will benefit from confining it to marriage. It is to do with understanding. If a person thinks sex is special or even sacred, they should confine it to marriage, otherwise they will be vulnerable. Which is what we see so much of.
Sex only after marriage is right for vulnerable people, but before is right for confident, self-motivated people. Most are vulnerable.

Answer 7

i waited 2-3 months

Answer 8

i imagine 3 weeks is lengthy adequate to attend contained in the real international.... in spite of each and each and every of the hypocrites who will inform you otherwise. lol. purely element that concerns is in case you needed it. however that you would possibly want to favor the relationship to progression or perhaps if you needed only a fling, 3 weeks is adequate. to boot you knew the guy a lot longer. Dont problem about it. thoroughly cool.

Answer 9

2 months

Answer 10

It really depends on the individual......there is no right or wrong answer. It all comes down to whether it feels right at the time. There should be no set time limit.