Since I lost my virginity all I can think of is my ex. Who I just lost it to isn't the right one and I feel like a slut. But since it's been gone, all Ican thiink about is my ex I dated 2 1/2 years that I wanted to lose it to. I wanted us to lose it together. He's back in my heart and starting to get back in my mind. This is the third time that I've wanted him back. How do I get him? We dated so happily. I broke up with him because he wasn't really keep in touch with me when he went to a school 5 hours south. I loved him. He loved me. What can I do to make him want me again? It's double as much as I've been thinking of him because I'm good friends with his sister. What can I do? he's still in that school. Should I write a fake later saying its from someone else and in it saying how much I want him. I did it before. Should I tell him myself? I did that before he said he didn't think so. If it wasn't for losing it I don't know if I would want him back again. is that normal? Help!!!!!!!
2007-01-13 09:33:18 · 11 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The two of you broke up for a reason - because the relationship wasn't working with him at his school. He's still there, so nothing has really changed and the relationship will still not work. You are missing him and that is completely natural, but you have to stop obsessing over him. You had planned to lose your virginity to him, but that never happened. Now you feel bad because you weren't really in love with the guy that you did end up sleeping with. Getting your ex back won't make you feel any better because what's done is done. You obviously aren't over him yet, so sleeping with someone else was almost like you trying to get your revenge on him by doing something you two had planned to do with someone else. Trying to prove to yourself that you were over him and you could move on when you really weren't, and that has just made matters worse in the end. There are ways to get him back if you really want to, none of the ways you mentioned above though. You have to show how committed you are willing to be. You can't send him a letter addressed from someone else because thats just rather senseless and how will it help you get him back in the end? You have to talk to him about this and tell him how much you want him back. But to be honest, it sounds to me as though the two of you would be better apart because you both want different things and you said yourself that if you hadn't slept with someone else, you wouldn't want him back. It's up to you, but I think it would be best to just let the memories rest.
2007-01-13 09:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by laislinns 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, get over him, and stop playing games. He's not interested and this is a good time in life to realize you can't have everything you want...especially people. If you have to write a fake letter to get someone, that's pretty sad don't you think? You can't get a guy without lying?
Why not work on yourself to be a better person...instead of a lying manipulative person? Be someone people will like and want to be around...then perhaps you'll have better luck down the road attracting the kind of guys you'd like to be with.
Good luck.
2007-01-13 09:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you love him.
If he loves you back then I'm sure you could find a way for it to work out.
But maybe you don't really love him. Maybe because you just lost your virginity you're feeling alone and you're just trying to find a time when you were happy, so it's not really him you're missing it's the happiness you had with him.
Talk to him, see if its him and not just the longing for happiness.
2007-01-13 09:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by Clark Gable <3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well think of it this way he is probly at that school 5 hours away screwing someone right now in this world there is someone for everyone so just think of him as the past and sail on enjoy life why u can and just have fun the right guy will come along
2007-01-13 09:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by ME 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
being or not being a virgin is not a big deal let it go. next forget about the ex bf and move on. mark my words a few years from now none of this petty stuff will matter to you.
2007-01-13 09:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by silentjealousy77 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-18 04:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is try .
write to him from your self . no fake letter. be honest.
you broke off with him three times so don't be surprised he will say no or ignore you.
I am sure he still loves you. but doesn't love how you broke it off and why.
2007-01-13 09:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was in her position once and what i did was to tell him the way i fell about him i thing that you shoud tell him that you like him and love is bline and this thing can make you confuss and that what you not want
2007-01-13 09:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by shanalla m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm I don't think the reason for your broke up is that serious, so...you will probably get him back soon.
I wish you luck so much for that :)
2007-01-13 09:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by Bobi G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him and tell him how you feel, and see if he feels the same.
2007-01-13 09:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by iheartshiny_things 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋