I like cameras and taking pictures in general. Well everyone knows this about me. So when my g/f's friends wanted to dress up in props and take pictures, they chose me to take the pics. Well that was fine, but they were drinking so then clothes started to come off. So some pictures were like a girl standing behind another girl with the one girl covering the other girls breasts. In the pictures there is no nudity, but of course I saw everyone naked. I was totally professional about it, they just needed a photographer.
Lets see what else do you need to know....this is my g/f of 6 years, my g/f wasnt there to supervise, and I didnt do anything with any of her friends.
So should be my of gotten mad about this???
2007-01-13 09:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this your chosen profession to photography nude girls? If not, then she has a right to be unhappy with your choice. What you did was take nude pictures of HER girl friends, that wasn't so good my friend. The right thing for you to do would have been to stop the clothes from coming completely off -- out of respect for YOUR girl friend.
2007-01-13 09:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it was wrong for her to get mad at you. I would assume that there was something going on with all of you. But it's also not your fault because you didn't do anything wrong and because photography is your hobby. I believe she just needs some reassurance. It's actually your girlfriend's friend's fault if you think of it. They're lame. What are they trying to do? Trying to get cool pictures like that? Or maybe they feel attractive to you. I don't know, but I think it deals with some issue of trust here! =) Good luck! I wouldn't blame your girlfriend for getting mad, though. 6 years? that's such a long time. I hope everything works out.
2007-01-13 17:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let your gf supervise. she has the right to be mad. instincts override professional manner but you are lucky it didnt that time. you might not have fooled around because on a subconscience level you knew they were her friends and she would have found out. just stay away if a situation occurs like that again. good luck with the gf. be open to the girls feelings! <-best advice
2007-01-13 17:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by gabriel d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should have been jealous, but she really should respect your right to follow what you like- photography, and if it happen to involve naked drunk chicks, then so be it... I've always enjoyed that perk too...
Really she needs to be told the truth about it and presented as full disclosure in the event- as in this is how it went down and I liked it but didn't get to join in it...
Maybe suggest she do the same in just you and her???
2007-01-13 17:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by worxsigns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably more hurt and suprised than mad. It usually comes out as anger. I think she does have a right to feel that way. If she was an artist how would you feel about her drawing one of your friends in the nude?
2007-01-13 17:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by digitalone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh ya if i was your girlfriend, i'd be mad. Just think how you'd fell if she did the exact same thing, how would you feel?
2007-01-13 17:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by f.lipped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be mad because you should have respected her and at least let her be there to supervise
2007-01-13 17:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you tell her to grow up, you are a aspiring photographer and you don't need this baggage,
2007-01-13 18:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋