I am 16 and i am pregnet and i do not know what to do should i tell my parents Me and my boyfriend Chris forgot about a condom one night what to do
2007-01-13 09:25:38 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ya, you definitely have a problem. Go to the nearest Planned Parenthood for serious advice.
2007-01-13 09:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by tellme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darling...listen. This is not a litlle thing to think about telling or not telling. Tell your parent, pronto!!!. Just talk to one u feel most confortable. Mom or dad.
U see, the thing is that u can't decide for yourself in this moment how u suppose to. Think clear because pregnancy is not sleepover party. Talk soon so u may still have time to make some constructive desicions. It would be good if u keep the baby. That's a life inside of u groving and no metter how freaked u are right now (i know u are), don't do something stupid before u talk to adult person who can advise u. It's your life and you are responsible person and start act like one...no metter if u didn't use a condom....what is done it's done.
Now...go forward and put yourself together and start think. But first talk. Talk to somebody...parents, preest, grandparents...anybody who can listen.
2007-01-13 09:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by joy_lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Chris first, he needs to know. Then the 2 of you together need to tell your parents and his. Then all 6 of you (the 2 of you and your moms & dads) need to make a game plan for your futures. Your future, Chris's future, your parents' futures, and your baby's future are all in the balance.
Look into adoptions. There are SO MANY families out there that want a child to love. You are giong to have a lot of choices to make. Take your time, think long and hard about your options and what will be best in the long run.
Good Luck.
2007-01-13 09:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by az 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably scared being young and pregnant is a scarey thing. I think it will be hard but tell your parents and then discuss your options. You may want to put the baby up for adoption. So many couples can't get pregnant. If your parents will help and you are mature enough to deal with a baby then you will have to grow up fast but it can be done. Take a deep breathe and do what's right.
2007-01-13 09:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh tough I thought that once also but first go to a free clinic or buy a test test like 3 times just to be sure than breathe cry it out relax than gather your self together and tell your parents and tell them that you are sorry alot of things would probably change you probably wont see chris for a little while but its best to tell them good luck!
2007-01-13 09:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on having an abortion (which you will have to decide before 2 months of pregnancy to do it without surgery), and you don't wait too long, I would advise not to tell your parents if you feel that they will look down upon you after the fact. If they are supportive, then go ahead. If you want to have an abortion, there should be a free clinic around you somewhere, if not then at least one that is really cheap. Hopefully, you don't live in a really small town.
2007-01-13 09:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by JGarLoPa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ooh my. You must be very depressed right now. =( Well, are your parents the type that would yell at you and wouldn't be there? and are you planning to keep the baby? I would plan to discuss it with your boyfriend first. Then the both of you can come to your parents and talk about it. It depends on the situation! =/ Sorry to hear, but I'm not sure what you would like to do. Do what you think is right.
2007-01-13 09:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg y in the world did u get pregnet now your 16 omg they will figure out soon how can your parents not notice you look preget you 2 should not have even try to have s*x u should learn from your miss stakes
2007-01-13 09:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question for you .. Why would you do it if you are 16 and not even married!!?? You are lucky that all you got is pregnant and you didnt get any STD's.
Definetly tell your parents they are going to find out sometime better now then later.
2007-01-13 09:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by qwerty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell your parents. Things happen. You will be a good mommy to your new child but it would help if you had the support of your family.
And if you keep the baby, do realize that your life is not over. Yes, it will change. You are going to have more responsibility and can't hang out the way you used to, but you can still finish school. You can still go to college and you can still be a success in life. Never, EVER let anyone tell you that you can't.
2007-01-13 09:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋