i asked my boyfriend what turns him on and he said when he is laying on top of me or when im sitting on his lap i dont understand how he could get turned on/an erection by this lol does anyone have any idea why he liked it?
2007-01-13 09:24:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because ur sitting on his dick, its like at a dance wen ur grinding with a hot girl.. sometimes u get an erectioin... and thats pretty close to sitting on a guys lap ( imight too actually, it is quite a turn on).
2007-01-13 09:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by david edwards 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
guys, especially teen guys, seem to get turned on by almost anything whether it is some innocent action or a totally wild sexual advance. Although if one really wanted to get a teen guy erect I suspect the innocent activity might not scare him away as badly as a wild sexual advance.
So, whether you are sitting on his lap, massaging his little finger or just kissing and hugging him, if he likes you and all, then his penis will probably respond. It isn;t anythign to understand really other than it being a perfectly normal for a penis to do when the guy it is attached to is feeling intimate in some way.
On the other hand, teen penises are well known to get erect for even totally non-sexual reasons. They will just pop up totally out of the blue. Like when stripping for a shower int eh locker room or for a doctor's check-up, some guys in the absence of sexual stimulation (mental or physical just get hard.
So, rather than try to find an explanation why not just enjoy the fact that he likes you enough for your contact with him is arousing things. It is only when you no longer cause him erections that you need be concerned.
2007-01-13 13:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Its because he's snuggling with the girl he loves and when it comes to guys and hard ons almost anything will get them hard even a whisper.
Try this and youll know what I mean...
the next time you sit on his lap lean back and whisper in his ear(I like sitting on your lap) he will go nuts lol
Dont worry about it hell sometimes a guy will get hard just by brushing into someone.
2007-01-13 09:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by TheNiceGuy 1 · 6⤊ 0⤋
1. u dont have a pic--so i cant tell u if ur ugly or not....i would assume ur not 2. it might be his fault --he might have ED. 3 u might not be doing it right.. 4. his mind might be somewhere else.( bills, rent, a game, food etc) 5. he might be stressed out UPDATE: ED does not have an age limit... guys as young as 16 can have ED. if he does, he might get mad if u point it out. before u do anything drastic...make sure he actually has ED. does he get hard at all? when u go down on him? does he lets u go down on him? do u guys have regular sex? does he stay hard during the whole sex time? there are tons of questions really... UPDATE 2 being inexperienced has nothing to do with it. guys usually have a tent sticking out from their pants at that age, as soon as a girl walks by.
2016-03-14 05:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the erection is a reaction of sexual stimulus, sitting on his lap makes you body touching his body especially in the sexual parts around his penis, this sitting is a starter for sex activities, so the erection take a place in order to have sex,
2007-01-13 09:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by smadi_000 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
men cannot control erections that well. And when men get close to or in contact with attractive women they sometimes become errect even if they don't want to or try not to.
2007-01-13 09:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Economics Guy 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hey, this happens! Has happened with me too.
Sometimes we guys get physically excited and turned on by simple touching, brushing, caress, sqeeze.
It means:
1. the organ is a bit hyper active and sensitive.
2. It also means he is madly in love with you.
3. You'll have great sex!!
2007-01-13 09:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by locutus83 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
might be the fact that he is really attracted to you.. there is nothing wrong with him gettin an erection by you sittin on his lap.. an im sure he can controle it like most guys
2007-01-13 10:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by pruittsgurl_01 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
cause he's a teenager or in his early 20's. a gust of wind will give a guy a ***** at that age.
2007-01-13 09:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by okinaps319 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It's one of life's great mysteries!
2007-01-13 09:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋