I went out with women we had a great time. I didn't call for like three days. I probably should of called the next day. I ended up leaving a message for her to call me back late night. Well anyway I text her Weds night to see if she was going to this bar that I was going to the next day. She didn't respond and showed up there and said it was coincidence. She was little different at the bar, but she was sick. I'm gonna call her Sunday or the next day and not leave a message if she doesn't answer. If she doesn't answer I'll call again in a few days, if she doesn't anwser than I'll probable just think she is not interested. Am I playing this wrong? I'm trying to remain kind of a challenge. But if she doesn't answer the next two times I call should I forget about her?
My basic problem is I don't know if she wants me to work for her and keep calling even if she doesn't anwser next week.
2007-01-13 09:21:38 · 15 answers · asked by TICKLES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex-fiancee was a challenge to get. I had to go through months of no call backs. I felt as you do... I would not call again and then when I saw her in class she would be all up on me. After awhile I just played mad. She would call once and then stop again. I would allow myself 2 phone calls per her 1...If I reached that limit I'd play mad again... this continued. I wouldn't talk to her much but was nice about it. I would give her a hug if she tried but then would make up a reason to walk away. I tried to make it obvious that I felt not calling back is as good as f*** off. I mean not calling back sometimes is understandable... but never?? When she called me I would lay on the charm... and even the next time I saw her in class (perfect because we had 3 days in class a week) I'd act her best buddy.
After some time I finally told her that when I saw her... my body went numb. I explained I was crazy about her. She finally started calling daily... hey it worked!
Don't get caught up on her. Continue to date others and keep yourself busy. It's all positive and negative reinforcements.... give little or no response when they do what you don't like... and give a great response when they do what you want.
Good Luck!
2007-01-13 09:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust and believe sweetie.....a woman will let you know if she's interested in you. If she hasn't returned your phone calls or text messages, she ain't interested. Granted, there may be a reason why she didn't..But if it's something really lame like I was sick or my cat died...then please do yourself a favor and keep it moving..
In response to your original question which was should you call the next day...I think the whole "3-day rule" has gone out the window..Dating really has no "etiquette" nowadays.. If you are interested in a woman, let her know that. One of the main things that women say that men lack is communication... So tell her!!! Women hate it when we have to "pull teeth" just to get some feedback...
2007-01-13 09:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who require games to get aren't worth getting in the first place. Move on and next time call the next day if you're interested.
2007-01-13 09:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing games. If you like her call, if not don't. If she doesn't answer, leave a message for her to return the call and leave it at that...the ball is in her court then.
2007-01-13 09:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think things out WAY too much. Call her one more time and leave a message. If she doesn't respond, let it go.
2007-01-13 09:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be brutal and tell you to do something you won't do.
Call her and say, honestly 'Do you want to see me again or not? It's okay if you don't, but i'd like to actually know instead of having to guess.' In other words, be honest. That may actually be what impresses her into a second date! I adore this quality in men.
2007-01-13 09:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont think she likes ya, man...she's blowing you off and trying to give you the cold shoulder and ignore you, hoping u'll back off
give it a few weeks and continue seeing other women
if she calls back, ask why she ignored you
but don't hold ur breath, just go continue seeing other women, she's obviously not interested in you
sorry, and good luck
2007-01-13 09:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by kaeh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to guage issues by technique of his moves, not his words. adult adult males can communicate a good communicate. He should be one which needs his own area and consider ascertain for your self if it truly is for you. per chance he has yet another existence happening at the same time as not with you, at times adult adult males want to thread a number of women alongside until eventually they ascertain what they want. provide him some extra time, yet dont waste too a lot time waiting for him to end taking section in video games.
2016-11-23 16:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by persingerjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like she is not intrested in you. youve called and left her txt messages and no responds . you should just stop waisting you thin on this person and find someone who actually is intrested in you.
a if you do call her just act casual dont get excited if she answers act it casual and if she doesent answer just move
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-13 09:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by enny_dZ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is playing hard to get cause you didn't call her the next day.
2007-01-13 09:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by Pammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋