Within my mind I was convince that my girlfriend is the love of my life but now everything appears to be dim. I don't feel happy with her she tends to upset me I really don't want to spend time with her. There is another girl I know and I'm happy when I'm with her, i feel I need to leave my girlfriend because I'm not happy with her. We are not compatible what should I do?
2007-01-13 09:20:47 · 6 answers · asked by rudy t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave your gf. No need to stay in a relationship if u are unhappy. good luck!
2007-01-13 10:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Instant Problemsolver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave her dude. Im in exactly the same situation. I havent done it yet, but thats coz im scared of hurting her, but i will soon. I need to. I love her but im not inlove with her, so in my opinion, if she doesnt always float your boat, and make you feel happy, if you notice the spark isnt there then you should leave her. There are some women who you will give you that spark forever.
2007-01-16 04:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by bluewavenightsky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy you won't be able to make her happy. But have u tried talking to each other? Find out what's causing you to both feel down? Do you love her enough to try?
If not...maybe you just don't love her. Be honest with yourself and with her...it's your best thing to do.
And even if you decide to break up...talk and try to explain to each other. It could just be better for both of you.
Good luck :)
2007-01-13 09:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by big h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you wrote it sounds like it would be better for both of you if you split up.
2007-01-13 09:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should stop lying to yourself and to her. Dont lead her on thinking you love her if you dont!
2007-01-13 09:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by f.lipped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-13 09:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋