More on my sister. She is 28 has been with her boyfrined who is also 28 for almost two years. They live together. Their physical relationship does not exisit. It did for the first few months and has gone steadily down hill. He says he cares and loves her. She can barely hug him without him pulling away. She has mentioned ending the relationship a few times over the past few months b/c of the lack of intimacy and the fact that he cannot discuss the future at all. Each time he has pleaded with her to stay. She has. He says he will change he hasn't. She is having a hard time leaving b/c overall he is a very kind, nice man. He insists he loves her. She continues to think their is hope. Lately she has complained of stomach aches, head aches, and a bunch of other stress related symptoms. She is a wonderful girl who can't give up on people but I think this is a bad situation. Please advise.
2007-01-13 09:19:57 · 9 answers · asked by digitalone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's her decision. She can stay with him and settle, or move and give both of them a chance for a happy life either as singles or with people who make better matches than these two do with each other.
2007-01-13 09:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to get outta there asap
forget about 'hope' and stuff
he's taking her for a ride
she doesnt need a man
she's still young and can go find herself some fun,
if she's having stomach and head pains b/c of stress it's too rough a relationship
more than likely he could even be cheating on her...the reason i say this is b/c he doesnt seem interested in touching her that much anymore
wish her luck
2007-01-13 09:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by kaeh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
overall u are deeply concerned for your sister but she knows what needs to be done.the only thing you can do is stand aside and let her make her own choice.now is the question for you to steep in and make her end - i think not dont get into that because your sister is old enough to know when to walk the only thing you could do is comfort her
2007-01-13 09:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by m-ria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him I think. How ling will she wait for something that may not happen, Unless he recognises that there is a problem and accepts to go for counselling. Otherwise, something just smells wrong here.
2007-01-13 09:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by luciloobomber2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds very serious, and i think the best thing to do would be for them to seek proffessional councling for couples. If he really loves her, he will agree.
2007-01-13 09:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Instant Problemsolver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just this time you should stay out of your sisters personal life. only do something if she asks you to.
2007-01-13 09:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by larry t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree! If he is putting that much stress on her she needs to say BYE-BYE to the promblem which of course is him.
2007-01-13 09:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by Pammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something going on. He isn't being honest with her. Why should she stay with him?
2007-01-13 09:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to ask him y and if he can't give her an answer then theres no reason for no touchin she should leave him
2007-01-13 09:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by brittany bear! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋