In other words, is there a good reason to cheat on your mate? Who do you think is worse? Man cheating? Woman cheating?
I have also put this question in the Marriage and Divorce section.
2007-01-13 09:16:37 · 13 answers · asked by Emma J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So far... thank you all. In marriage and divorce section they all thought I was cheating. As I told them there, it seems that there is so much of it going on with people I know. I don't get it and I don't agree with it. Thank you all in advance. I promise to give ten points to the best answer when time allows. So far, MOST of you have received a thumbs up from me.
2007-01-13 09:28:24 · update #1
I think that there is a double standard when it comes to whats worse..a man or woman cheater. Most would prob say that its worse if a woman cheats..it makes her a ****, but with guys its just part of thair nature. I say that is ********. Its bad either way, a cheater is a cheater..there is no difference.
But the reasons are varied:
With MEN:
-they have become bored with the sex at home
-they miss the chase
-the opportunity arose itself
-midlife crisis
-they are just downright pigs
-etc etc etc..there are so many more...
With WOMEN:
-bored with the sex at home
-man has become distant and wont touch her anymore(possibly because he is cheating)
-she's a ****
-needs to feel lusted after again
-needs excitement
Nobody can really know their reason for cheating except themselves. Its not right however you look at it. People get hurt or killed because of cheating. It tears apart homes, and you could lose somebody you really love for one night of excitement.
2007-01-13 09:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there shouldn't be a reason for a man or a woman to cheat on each other. But sometimes it's not going good at home, not getting any at home, want to try something different, or just plain who cares and they cheat. What's worse I would say just cheating. ANd it shouldn't be none. But some people just get all riled up when they fight and it goes from there. Most of the time a marriage or relationship ends up in cheating is because they is communication.
2007-01-13 09:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man cheating..
If you are a dude and you cheat on ur gf..your girlfriend will know
and make a big deal out of it..she will tell everyone she knows..so like you would have a rep of cheating on girls..so then..your friends who are girls will know and wont hang out with you and then local girls taht know your gf's friend will know everything about you!...so the Man is worse..
Woman cheating
If you are a Woman that is cheating..you will get hurt..
your bf will get hurt..and he wont show it to u that he is hurt but probably he will show anger...in replacement of hurt..he wont do anything physically but he will not talk to you and etc..but he wont tell other ppl...cuz well guys usually dont tell other ppl stuff...
so the girls have it easier..but the girls will feel sympathy for the person she is cheating on..
So it might depend on what type of person you are..or who you are cheating on..
And no..there is not a good reason to cheat on..because..if you cheat too much ppl will know about you..and you will not have a girl unless you move somewhere else and restart your dating life...i guess
2007-01-13 09:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by Darius C. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a guy i would say boredom like you know after a while the things are just same over and over again and you sorta get bored, but there is no good reason to cheat on someone its better to just end it than cheat and for worst depends i guess if a man cheats the woman gets hurt and if the woman cheats the mad gets hurt soo its same for both
2007-01-13 09:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship is going wrong then that is a reason. But the MAIN reason is the character of the person. If it is in their character or personality to cheat then they are going to do it. Anyone who has a good morals will not cheat no matter how bad the relationship is going.
2007-01-13 09:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Pablo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is wrong and will lead to no good in the end, if your unhappy then end it first so that you can move into a new and healthy relationship. It is always good to not lie, play games or hurt each other in my mind anyway.
2007-01-13 09:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by utahbugtussel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know the answer to this question but I hate cheating.
2007-01-13 09:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by CurlsWithBrains 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The main reason for cheating is stupidity.
2007-01-13 09:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
With all the mating going on especially during the Summer heat...how do you expect to keep a Man down on just one cookie when theirs boxes of them out there?
2007-01-13 09:20:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i would say that girls cheating is worse because girls are normally mature enough to know better if a boy does he can't really help it......there is no really goosd reson to cheat on yur mate at keast idon't think so
2007-01-13 09:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by brittany bear! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋