im really upset, im so lost and heartbroken, i need advice :(?

Question

i got in a huge arguement with my boyfriend because he was pressuring me for sex and i told him i didn't completly trust him yet because of when he cheated me for another girl then dumped me and went out with her. he got all defensive about it and said that he gets bored easily with girls. he probably just told me that because he wanted to blame something on me like i did to him. he told me to go home. i was so upset because me and him had promised that we wouldnt get ourselves in stupid arguements. i tried to resolve it by saying im sorry dont be upset just right now i need to be ina more of a secure relationship. he got all stubbern and mad at me. i started crying. he has never seen me cry before. i barely ever cry. then he started being all nice to me again and trying to comfort me. he hasnt really been calling me lately or as much as he used to. does that mean hes done with me? or that he juts wants to take a break? ugh i dont know what to think :(

we talked at school and everything seemed okay. but i dont know what hes really thinking and im afraid to bring all of that back up again to him..

Answer 1

His ego made you cry and even then he didnt have the empathy to back off a bit?

He says he gets bored easil with girls? You are a girl right?

He didnt respect your refusal to have sex and went right out and found someone else.

He phones you occasionally. Er, why are you wasting your love?. You can get a dog more faithful than that.

It hurts but it wont take you long to see him for what he is. Then you wake up to the fact that you are a better person than you clearly think you are.. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

its over hunnie, ignore him and move on...its the only way....he is not worth your tears.

Answer 3

forget about that guy, he is scum.