Sex is so overrated. I've had more sex than I care to discuss. Most of it is meaningless without love involved. So many people think that is all there is to life and then wonder why they are so miserable down the road.
2007-01-13 08:58:48 · 18 answers · asked by TriSec 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Makes you wonder why, in our free-loving, freely sexualized, "if it feels good do it" society, 1 in 5 adults are "depressed" and swallowing drugs every day, doesn't it?
2007-01-13 09:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is definitely overrated but you can't seem to get away from it.Everywhere you look there is images of sex, books, TV, movies, bill boards, couples in the street.It seems that media plays it up to get everyones attention and when we are caught most of us feel a little let down by what we find.Sex can be like an addiction, the more you get, the more you want ,and the more you have to get in order to be satisfied.Most people don't think that it's addicting and they just go do whatever they feel is necessary to get what they feel they need.So many people sleep around just for recreational sex now without any attachment.They wonder why they feel the way they do.Its because they put their quest for sex above personal growth and relationships.As you said sex is sex and it doesn't fulfill the emotional need for companionship.Sex alone doesn't fill the void left inside without an emotional connection.
2007-01-13 09:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably aware that not every individual needs all that sex. It's just in our general nature I guess. It's not a thing from the 21st century, it's always been around. Luckily today there are so many ways we are protected from our own bad desires, except for internet being so full of child pornography and rapes just happening everywhere without consequences. It's terrible to just seek people for sex. If that's all you want then there should be some integrity at least. Media presure is the worst.
2016-05-23 21:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fun...but there are a lot of other activities that are fun too. It's just a popular topic, because for so long it was taboo (not just on Answers but in Life)...it used to be scandalous to discuss sex openly, now that it's more acceptable to talk about, people like to do that...
There need be no meaning to sex, beyond having an enjoyable experience...when love is involved, it's a completely different experience but that certainly doesn't have to be a component of it for it to be TONS of fun. ☺
Although, for those that seem to have their lives centered around it, I do feel sorry for 'em...they are allowing themselves to miss out on a lot of other fun stuff.
2007-01-13 09:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only say that I remember when I was in my teens and twenties it was the only thing I would think about but now I seem to know what is more important than that in life. I like sex even more than I did then, and seem to be better at it (I believe & hope). I personally think that it has to do with maturity and the clear mind of someone that has searched for meaning in thier lives.
2007-01-13 09:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by utahbugtussel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're foolish. Better to save that for someone you love than spread it around. I've seen men and women who regard sex as little more precious than handshaking. It's sickening. Have a nice day!
2007-01-13 09:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats a tuffy. When I was young we wanted a Family. As I grew older it became more of a thing men and women did to show there trust for each other. As you get older you will understand no one want;s to be alone forever.
2007-01-13 09:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by Billy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i agree with you i mean same here but i think its very ovveratedbut mainly everything now is about sex and money why is that? it just seems so messed up
2007-01-13 09:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by brittany bear! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is sex it feels good but its not all about sex tyhe more you like the person or love the person the better it feels thats how most people show there effection and other ways too but you cant say sex does not feel good,......
2007-01-13 09:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by juggalette~dopey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What? meaningless is the best sort! LOL
2007-01-13 09:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋