It was perfectly fine to dance like that as long as you were comfortable with it. If you didn't want to dance so close, from now on just say something about it. But if you enjoyed the dance and it was fun for you, then everything is fine and good for you.
Just because you dance with a guy does not mean you are or have to go out with him. By him moving you to dance closer can mean a lot of things... he could like you and wanted to be closer to you.... that may be just the way he likes to dance; most likely if he was dancing with you it means he liked you at least a little. Though this might not mean he wants to date you, but he could.
What you need to do is figure out how you feel about it (do you want to go out with this guy? get to know him better? etc.) and then find out how he feels about you; maybe he justs wants to be friends, he may want more; but its up to you how far you want to go. Never feel obligated to do anything, and do not be forced or perr pressured into dating someone b/c of what your friends or he thinks.
hope this helped,
good luck
2007-01-13 08:37:20
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answered by kevin O 3
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You're 13, there's nothing wrong with thinking about this stuff. Boundaries are crossed at your age and dancing close to a guy could mean more than friendship. Ignore what everyone's saying, because this is between you and this guy. Maybe the guy likes you! You'll have to wait it out and see. But you didn't do anything wrong, you are probably just a nice and attractive 13 year old girl who has boys interested in her. So good luck!
2007-01-13 08:31:46
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answered by marisa_g1rl 3
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He probably likes you! He's even dancing with you in front of his friends. That's a good sign...esp if you like him too. :) And if you don't like him in that way, it's still a compliment. And the boundary line is drew where ever YOU start to feel uncomfortable.
Sweetie, it's not a dumb question. I've been 13 before too, and I remember what those feelings were like. :) If you want to talk more, you can send me an email.
2007-01-13 08:35:10
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answered by *StewartGirl14* 2
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No, slow dancing with someone doesnt' necessarily mean anything. As far as boudary lines, depends on your comfort level of who you're with. If you don't like someone to be so close, tell him to back off. Definately an invasion of your personal space. And when he pulled you close, he probably didn't mean much by it, especially if he didn't get your number or ask to see you again after the dance. So relax, and enjoy. But not TOO much.....
2007-01-13 08:32:44
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answered by yzma 2
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I think if he's pressuring you to do more that's wrong. You are at a very tender age. Do not let yourself be pressured by ANYONE. You were not put on this earth to be his fun mate. The decisions you make now will follow you always, Be careful who you give your attention to. It's better to be unpopular and have your dignity, than to look for love in all the wrong places. I've been there honey.
2007-01-13 08:33:04
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answered by Susan P 3
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i think that you should try and get to know hima little more, but don't jump to conclusions. trust me... i always used to do that, but then i found out that guys don't think of it like that. to them, it's no big deal and they don't really think about it. at a party last year, i danced dirty with this guy that i really liked and i thought it meant something but come to find out, i was hurt when i found out it meant nothing to him. get him to notice you a more than just some girl and move on frm there, but don't take it as something big that yall slow danced because most likely it doesn't mean that much to him. sorry and good luck!
2007-01-13 08:35:49
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answered by washingtonwhitegirl 2
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I think that he may like you... and if you don't think that you like him back then just tell him that you need some time to be just friends. But if you like him, or you would like to go for a relationship talk to him and try to see what his point of veiw is. He may have just done that for his friends or maybe a lot more... I am guessing it is a lot more.
2007-01-13 08:34:11
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answered by Need to know 2
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Let your antennas go up. You'll know where to draw the line. Be happy and get to know yourself. Right now your so young, you can ask questions, that's good, but you don't need all that going on, right now...
2007-01-13 08:32:52
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answered by lee f 5
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well i think that there could have been something there if he wasnt kidding around when he dance with you...just wait and see what happens...if he keeps flirting than he's into u and u should totally go for it!
2007-01-13 08:32:16
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answered by Anonymous
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maybe he likes you, and i don't think he meant that in like a bad way... if ya kinda think about it... its sounds really cute/sweet... but it's just slow dancing... i mean you could have been freakin' and that WAY worse! no... i think it was just a friendly way to get to know "ur crush" a bit more... so ur ok...
2007-01-13 08:32:05
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answered by singing2thetop 2
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