Can the opposite sex tell if you are a virgin or not?

Question

I'm a female and i was just wondering if the opposite sex can tell if a girl is a virgin/prude or not by the way she acts? it's a question i've been thinking about for awhile...

Answer 1

Can certainly take educated guesses, but nope, no way that I can think of of knowing that a girl is a virgin. Just remember virgin and prude are definitely not the same thing. Virgin is never having had sex and prude is not having sex because your too stingy or stuck up.

Answer 2

Now, let's give some credit. A virgin is not necessarily a prude. Maybe she is deliberately waiting for marriage, or, just hasn't had as much opportunity to find the one that gets to her, ya know.

And she doesn't want to be bothered with anything second best. She places more value on love than that.

But that is still only one view. So, to answer you're question. No, I don't think so in every case that a guy could just automatically tell.

Alot would depend on the place and the situation. If you were kissing, then, Yeah, or especially if you went further, he might very well be able to tell.

Cause' you would seem more experienced and that would give it away.

But why try to hide the real you away? Anybody who would have a problem with that would not be worth you're time.

Afterall, you probably have warmth, sensousness, vitality, and that is all part of being a real woman, too.

If somebody nice can't appreciate that without having some kind of hang-up? Let it be just his hang-up.

So don't you get hung-up. Kiss him Goodbye! ( and Good Riddance!)

Answer 3

First, we have to define "acts". There are acts that just are movements (body and face); but, sometimes people consider "acts" reach words (that reflex the thougths and the way one thinks).

If you are asking about body movements and gestures or even words or phrases, some men could be able to tell if a girl is a "virgin/prude or not".

Some girls (virgins) are excellent actress and can act as if they had a lot of sexual experience, and -in the other hand- there are "bad girls" that act as if they were spotless.

So, the stuff depends on many factors, but yes some (few) men are able to guess the naked truth... Just think that men use to be more visual, but more schematic; it means that some visual aspects (clothes, the way she moves, the make up) cover the verbal information (the words she uses or the way she thinks), and that can lead them to a wrong conclusion.

Answer 4

No they cannot. Some will argue that if she does not bleed during sex or if she doesn't have a hymen then she is not a virgin. This is not true. Some women just don't bleed their first time. As for the hymen, it can be broken very easily; horseback riding, sports, tampons..these can all cause it to break. Some women aren't even born with one.

Answer 5

there's no way of telling just by how someone acts. a lot of girls act like they've "done things" when they really havent and some feel that its personal so they dont put it out there too much. if you act too prude or too experienced then that is how people will end up seeing you...

Answer 6

only if you shy away from any thing concerning sex and
you don't know how to answer.
A prude is one who acts like sex is a bad thing...

Answer 7

No...but the running joke is "you have to watch out for the "quiet" ones... they tend to be very freaky down inside." Sometimes the girls who give off the impression that they're experienced my in fact be inexperienced, but in other cases if it walks like a duck...quacks like a duck...then you better switch to AFLAAAAAACK!! J/K

Answer 8

Sometimes its obvious but not always. People become more sharp and aware of things once they have tasted the forbidden friut.

Answer 9

No not just by the way she acts.
It can be hard to tell this by any means.
Good Luck

Answer 10

well if he dont want you for not being a virgin find a new man