i am a woman. i have had many boyfriens and i have been very happy with them. but lately, whenever i masturbate i have been immagininng my best firend of 9 years naked and playing with me in private and intamite ways. i like immagining her playing with my nippels and my pussy, and i get an amazing orgasm, but whenever im done i feel disgusted and cant believe i would ever think of her like that, i don't know why i lke to think about her like that. and i have even gone so far as to when ever she spends the night at my house or when i spend the night at her's ill look at her when shes getting dressed and think about licking her all over. and when we go to sleep ill wait for her to fall asleep first then ill play withh her niples and rub her clit a little bit!. .. . . please tell me whats wrong with me! !!!! !! !!!
2007-01-13 08:13:31 · 4 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ashley, you're discovering how factual it is that our brains are our largest sex organ. 90% of our sexuality happens in our brains, and that impacts the great 10% of what happens to our bodies. Fantasy is quite normal, and fantasizing about things I like to call "on the edge" seems to be even more stimulating.
Your masturbatory fantasy of your friend goes to the depth of your relationship over the past nine years. You probably feel close and like you know one another very well, and that extra intimacy is an extension of your feelings for her. The more the mental feeling, the stronger your physical response when you masturbate. Up to that point, there's *nothing* wrong with you.
However, I do have to address the last part about when she goes to sleep and you stimulate her nipples and her clit. You are violating a trust and taking advantage of her in a way she might not appreciate. If she did appreciate it, it ought to be something you lightly bring up in a conversation with her (like complimenting her nipples when she's getting dressed) and see how she reacts. If it seems to freak her out, then treat it as a passing cute comment. If she picks up on the hint, let it be with her consent. I sincerely with you the best, but keep it consensual, in my opinion...... Peace out!
2007-01-15 15:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by winefp2000 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
not a thing just be sure you keep the guys in on the fun and go for it
2007-01-14 17:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what's wrong with you, NOTHING!!!!!, you my be bisexual, there's nothing wrong with that, have you ever though about talking to her about your feeling, ask her if she has ever thought about the things you think about to, see how she feels
2007-01-13 16:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by mary_r96 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
im thinking your sexually attracted to your best friend and bisexual.
2007-01-13 16:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by T razz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋