ive been in love with some one for nine years. he used to love me but about five years ago his mom was expecting but the baby
didnt make it. then he changed, i tried to make things work but he kept pushing me away and eventually he treeted me like was a nobody he played cruel tricks on me but i still loved him. then about two years ago i saw a glimps in him of what used to be. he started talking to me again, started treating me like i was important to him. then just last yearhe called me. he told me he wanted me but he had girlfriend he said he didnt believe that i wanted him so 2 prove myself i would have to sleep with him then he would leave his girl. i agreed it tok him a while to break it off though cuz he wuz with two girls at the same time but when he did i said it was to late then he fell in love with a new girl and plans on marrying her, but their not engaged, he hates me now, and now i want him back, what do i do?
2007-01-13 08:12:14 · 11 answers · asked by katies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on.
2007-01-13 08:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a scumbag! I'm sorry, but telling you that you have to sleep with him to prove you want him???? I hate to tell you this, but that was ANOTHER one of his "cruel tricks." You should have told him to pound sand when he said that. Move on, and find someone else. He is not worth your tears, and he's wasted more than enough of your time. If he ever has the nerve to call you again, tell him exactly that and hang up.
2007-01-13 08:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are allowing yourself to be used by this guy. Have some pride in yourself, because until you respect yourself no one else will either. Get on with your life honey, There's someone out there who will treat you the way you deserved to be treated.
2007-01-13 08:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by Susan P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. this guy's a joke. he obviously doesn't kno what he wants. you want a stable relationship rite? find a nice guy. if all he wanted was to sleep with you to change his mind, that's not LOVE!!! what a jerk! find someone who will love u for u, want to be with u because of u...yea, u'll care about him still because u've known him so long but after being with someone who truly loves u, u'll forget about him...trust me, moving on is tough but when u do and u look back on it, it was probably the best thing u've done.
2007-01-13 08:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by rice_burner503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's getting engaged hon, if you really care about him, wish him the best towards his happiness and marriage, and try to find love somewhere else, i know things will never be the same but you have 2 let it go
2007-01-13 08:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by bkbombshell2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sucks when you love somone who dont love you back
MOve on with your life do something to get you mind off the pain
2007-01-13 08:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life and move on
2007-01-13 08:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont do anything but continue this cycle of use and abuse. are you that insecure and lacking any self confidence?
2007-01-13 08:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that dude sucks go find soemone else.
2007-01-13 08:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by crocenm13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and find someone else chick.
2007-01-13 08:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋