Okay, so this guy I like asked me out yesterday. I of course, said yes. But, there is this other guy I also like and I have no idea what to do.
2007-01-13 08:10:21 · 18 answers · asked by Lee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does the other guy you like, like you? Have you ever dated the other guy? If so, then where do you stand with him? If you've never asked him out and he's never approached you, then go for the one who did ask you out. You can't wait around wondering about the other guy.
2007-01-13 08:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if ya have no idea about him, what he is doing or where he is at? Then, I would say, don't worry about him.
Life doesn't stand still. If it does not look like any kind of a shot with the other one, why miss out on this nice opportunity.
You are very lucky girl! Enjoy life while you can.
And you may end up just as happy, or happier yet, with this one.
Who knows till ya try, right? Maybe you can give me some of you're pointers, on how ya get em'!
2007-01-13 08:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by smoothsoullady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A date is not a proposal, go out have fun. That is what dating is about. Getting to know someone and having fun. Or you could wait at home bored forever waiting for 'the right guy' to ask you out. It could be if you go out with this guy you may find out things about him that make you like him more. Also you may finally go out with the first guy and realize he is really a jerk. Whatever you do, keep your eyes and ears open as well as your mind and your options. Good luck.
2007-01-13 08:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by indianola_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ally,
No matter who asks you out, you should go for the guy you like the most. If you feel more strongly for the guy who asked you out, fine, but if not you should pursue the other guy instead.
Grab life with two hands and go for what you REALLY want. Life is just too short for anything else, and if things don't work out, trust me, there will be others..
2007-01-13 08:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you are worried about hurting the feelings of the guy you like. He might be upset about it if he likes you back. If you're not worried about hurting his feelings because you don't think he'll care then go for it. However, I would resolve this situation between the guy you like first. Ask him out. If he says yes, go with him. If he says no, go with the other guy.
2007-01-13 08:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by man_of_mustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same situation befor one year
i choose to go out with this guy and try to forget the other ,well i found things in my lover now that make me feel happy ever than i can be.
try to go out with this guys and if he make you laugh and happy then go again ,but if you feel boring then ever don't think to go out with him again
some time we maybe been blind from what we have in Ur hand and love to live in something that we think it good for us but for real , it hurt us
live your life with out look back
try to give the new guys chance and see what will happened
may god protect you
2007-01-13 08:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by ROSE2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stay with the new guy. You don't really know what you have until you've lost it. If you let go of the guy you have now you may regret it in the future.
2007-01-13 08:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by x_scream22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should go on the date but if you don't like the guy go for the other one.
2007-01-13 08:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very last one only drop him (eliminate him from ur record cos he will do an same element to u also). i imagine u favor to opt for on the three %. one which fairly needs u , and its more suitable constructive wen at-record u have some thing in undemanding . bypass out with them locate out what they prefer n dislikes . And even as u c that ur heart chooses one in all them then fall it.
2016-10-31 00:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by ridinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this current guy, I say try and forget about the past guy. He likes yu and you like him( or wouldn't have said yes), so forget about the past guy.
2007-01-13 08:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋