...for you to stay inlove with someone.?If not, what else? Physical contact? ... if that is not posible in the present because of your distace it means there's no chance for you to stay inlove???
2007-01-13 08:08:24 · 20 answers · asked by anne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have omitted adventurous.
2007-01-13 08:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by breedgemh_101 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, you don't need all that, all you need is to understand each other, to know each other well, what he likes and of course what he do not like; it is very simple all you need is communication I mean good communication between you two, also read some books about the normal male behavior like what the man likes, how and why so you can think of what you do and if it can help to improve your relationship or not.
Not always distance means get away, some times we all need space, there is time for every thing; I suggest you to be straight with him and ask him if he is doing something else or he just need space because you need him, always make a question and give a reason for that question, we don't like to be questioned for any reason or for hidden reasons, you know?
Also, never ever give anything not asked for, I mean "physical contact"; there is a very thin line that you must be very sure if you want to cross it or not (specially if you are not married with him) because you can create your precedents I mean a way to solve a problem, for example: if all that he wants from you is sex but he don't like responsibilities he will force a fight just to get to the lovely end, you know what I mean, and he don't really cares about you and your feelings, yea there are many man like that.
The morality is essential in love relationship; and love is the way to know the true love, man likes many, many things but love is different, I mean: if you love some one, you care for him ( like I see you do) and if you care for some one more than you do for you, you're "inlove" with him.
I don't know if I make sense, sometimes I don't even understand myself but I hope you do and I hope you think about it.
Evaluate yourself and your relationship, that's the key.
2007-01-13 17:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by cone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly my opinion over time you get used to not having them around all the time, the love slowly dies, i was with a girl for 14 months when i had to move away from here to a different counrty, as first we spoke 3 times a day but over time it becomes less the phone calls become akward and short, you need physical contact with someone to stay in love i think
2007-01-13 16:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bobby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a guy, but I think those characteristics are definitely something that decent guys look for. But, that's where I think guys would generally put you in the "friend" category. Its different for all guys, but I'm pretty sure physical contact is definitely important for the majority of the population.
2007-01-13 16:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats nice but most relatioships need physical contact.
This does not nec mean sex especailly if young.
But would include hugging, touching, kissing, pawing, tickling, sleeping on each other etc.
It depends on how long apart.
In any of those questions you need to put your ages... or somone will suggest something like webcam sex ie boths tossing off via the camera but thats more for grown ups .
You sound too young for that as all things sexaul you must feel confortable with and like or you are too young to do it.
Im like to be acitive so like fiesty fun active types.
Also guys may like you as a mate but to be a girlfriend its sexual... semi sexual ie wanting to kiss and see, ie like looking at your boobs, and touch you or more if older.
2007-01-13 17:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a long distance relationship with my fiance as we live 2.5 hours apart and can tell you that it is not a problem. Being sweet, caring, loving are all good things to bring with you to your relationship. But being self-confident, honest and secure are things that should accompany them.
2007-01-13 16:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe it is very hard to maintain long distance relationships, just from my own experience I need someone to hold me and kiss me because without that I feel no real love..
2007-01-13 16:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by MoMoChan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
those r all good qualities but physical contact is a major but if its a long-distance then if u r truthful and faithful to them it could last
2007-01-13 16:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a wonderful combination to this man.....you can stay in love, but it also takes being together a lot to keep the fires burning...the old expression "absence makes the heart grow fonder" doesnt quite apply in todays dating scene.....good luck...
2007-01-13 16:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys do need the tocuh of a woman. without that.. it wont last...
Sex is not the answer, sex is the question, yes is the answer.
Wait for the boy that will make you smile like no one else.
What's meant to be will always find it's way.
2007-01-13 16:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
those qualities are ok but not enough to keep the spark going. be those qualities too much and you'll end up a door mat.
2007-01-13 16:16:23 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋